2006-07-23 14:18:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it inspires jealousy. no matter how bitter or easy the split was, it brings back memories. and it eventally just leads to a bad relationship btw u andur friend. if you talk about a date with him for instance, or she sees you and him doing something, she'll always wonder "why didnt he do that with me?" or "why does he do it more with her, is she better looking than me, smarter than me?" and going out w.ur firneds ex makes ur friend think that if the ex want sto go out with u now, were there times in THEIR relationship when he was diggin you. no matter how much ur friend insists u can date him, u really shouldnt. its garunteed that bad blood will spill. but, hey, its ur call. ur friend or her ex? boys come and go, good friends are hard to find and last forever.
2006-07-23 14:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Its very simple...she is your friend! BAd idea. Would you like it if it were you? Friends just don't go out with the other ones ex. The ex-boyfriend would like nothing better than to have his ex's friend and cause problems between you two. It would be like "In your face"'Why let that person come between the two of you. It shows no class. Even if she is totally over him, she would not appreciate that type of move by you. If she is truly your friend, you will make it your absolute business to stay well away from him.
There are tons of boys out there...make a better choice.
2006-07-23 21:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people always keep emotional attachments to people regardless of the break up. You do this out of respect. Humans are territorial, even if they don't admit it. There are a lot of other fish in the sea, but good friends are hard to come by.
2006-07-23 21:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with going out with ex-es. It is just that their current bfs or gfs felt threaten and jealous. If one is not fated to end as husband or wife they can remained as good friends. It is alright to have more friends than enemy.
2006-07-23 21:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just wrong to do that to ur girl. my friends and i have a pack to never go out with each others ex's.
2006-07-23 21:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by countrylovinggirl81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're both VERY mature and it is acceptable to her, it's okay. Otherwise you will lose two people - the boyfriend and your girlfriend.
Talk to your girlfriend about it and be watchful if she says yes but you know she doesn't mean it. Then don't do it.
2006-07-23 21:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong becuase, he went out with your friend, plus it brings doubt into your friends mind that maybe when they were together he was really interested in you and not her. Besides she is your friend and real friends dont do that to one another. There are other guys out there...just forget about this one.
2006-07-23 21:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by NiTa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you break up with a guy, even if you don't want him anymore, you don't want your best friend dating him, either. But, if SHE broke up with him, and she doesn't mind you going out with him, it's okay. But I would ask her. If she has any reservations, whatsoever, I wouldn't go out with him. Be loyal to her feelings, if she is your friend. There are lots of other guys but very few best friends.
2006-07-23 21:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXXXXX because it causes conflict in both relationships and it's not worth the pain it causes for all involved. And I'm sure if it where your ex bf which your best friend was going out with, you'd understand. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-23 21:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you know deep down inside that it is not really over and it will screww up your friendship. There are enough guys out there, don't take leftovers.
2006-07-23 21:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋