we were going 2 go have dinner and a movie he said but his uncle called and said 2 go drink with him so i said ok for a lil while then we were there and he was saying how much i act like a ***** not in a sluty way but have in attitude and i said he made me dat way then he said i was acting stupid. Then his stupid uncle said well lets go bar b q and i said no just because is our anniversary in other words i feel like **** now because he left what should i do he left me alone on our anniversary sad and blue????? part of me is mad at his family should i feel this way??
2006-07-23 13:50:52 · 11 answers · asked by raiderchic83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no you shouldnt be mad at his family. you should be mad at him. first of all he shouldnt talk to you like that. and secondly ya shouldnt of went out drinkin for his uncles sake. this is a special occasion for both of you. if he felt the same you would of came first.if i was you i wouldnt be sittin there walloring in tears, i would get dress and go and go do what he's doing.
2006-07-23 13:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had every right to suggest that the two of you spend your anniversary alone. Don't feel guilty because you demanded respect. Don't be upset because you stood up and refused to let his uncle dictate your plans on your anniversary. Don't excuse him calling you out of your name ever. Continue to stand up. If he can't do what is right by you, then leave him. Three years or not, you can do better.
2006-07-23 20:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel so bad, my husband has ruined the last 3 anniversaries we've had and we've been together 3 years... most men who arent happy, are determined to ruin your anniversary.....sit down with him on another day and tell him how it made you feel to be left alone on your special day. if hes anything like a real man should be, he'll understand and quit ruining your anniversary..
2006-07-23 20:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by shortyonwheelz2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We did you allow this fellow (the uncle) to stick his nose in the first place? Keep your inlaws and your own relatives out! It's your anniversary and if your mate doesn't give that top priority then you have all the right to unleash your air raids and bombard him.
2006-07-23 20:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the whole loser family. Him and his uncle seem to be real jerks. I wouldn't contact your boyfriend at all - let him figure what's going on and come to you. If he doesn't understand why you're upset (stay calm when explaining) then dump his *** and move on to better things.
2006-07-23 20:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that you two should have celebrated it together. I am so sorry he did this to you. Men can be jerks. But I would talk to him - and if its too late (like real late or something to do something together) then I would reschedule like for next weekend. If that doesnt work then I would definitely talk to him about how important it is.
2006-07-23 20:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for starters don't be really mad at your hubby...he was drinking wouldn't you expect him to say things like that? i can't say i know why he went to the bbq but if i were you i'd wait till he came home and in the right mind before i got mad or super hurt...i mean people make mistakes..i'd have something planed for him when he comes back you know like something special to remind him its your anniversary:-)
2006-07-23 20:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be mad.At him and his family member.It's your anniversary.And it was wrong of him to say you had an attitude.Of course you're gonna have an attitude,he should be spending time with you if he said he was going too.
2006-07-23 20:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let mercy lead your actions. he will apologize to you sweety. your never gonna be in fiery love like the first 7 or 8 years of marriage.
2006-07-23 20:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a good husband at all. Bear with it or divorce him.
2006-07-23 20:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋