soumnds like this guy likes you alot ...not many guys wud put there reps on the line and admit they hadnt had sex with a girl, and leave themselves open to the usual ridicule, so id take it as a compliment, and start taking stock of your trust issues cuz u cud lose him if you carry on
2006-07-23 13:03:11
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answered by she wolf. 4
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I am not sure if I undestand your ?. Anyway what does it matter if you had sex 10 times a day or once every 10 months??? Love isn't just about sex and if that was whst you were both after then you guys need somebody else. don't get me wrong sex is great but it isn't what makes a relationsnhip. No he shouldn't have said anything to anybody about your personal life at least the way you are saying he did it. It is different to talk to somebody for help or to try and make another person look bad. I hope some of this made some kind of sense and helps in some way. Good luck.
2006-07-24 13:42:25
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answered by confused/hurt/angry 3
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Ok, let me level with you off of the hypathetical... do you not see that this word says pathetic? Ok... here is the scoop. Your ex man is right where he belongs, as an ex. If you didn't have sex with him, then that is your business and really doesn't need to be aired on yahoo answers. You said it yourself, he is a big player. Why do you think that you deserve a player? You really need to look in the mirror and see who YOU are first. You don't need a player, and worse off I am worried for you because you feel you deserve one.
My best advice for you is, go out, make new female friends... go get your hair and nails done... THEN look at yourself. Aren't you worth more than a player?
Hope this helps and good luck...
2006-07-23 20:08:32
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answered by Cutelilminxy 5
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It means he was interested in one thing and that his "friends" were more important than any promise he made to you. You were right in dumping him I think. If you already had trust issues and it got to the point where he had to "prove" he cared about you, then you were probably right in the first place and should never have gotten involved with him. A relationship is between two people, when friends and family get involved it seems disingenuous to me. Good luck and trust your own judgement, you knew he was a player, so he played.
2006-07-23 20:04:35
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answered by JAR2 2
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Hypothetically speaking, it means he's a bum. A true gentleman never 'kisses and tells'. What happens in private should stay private. You said 'he was known to be a BIG player'. I assume that means he was bragging about having sex with you. Just proves he's a liar, that's all.
2006-07-23 20:02:35
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answered by sparkletina 6
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I'm surprised that he did tell the truth....but the bigger question is why is he discussing your personal business with his friends???
The problem a lot of young couples have is that they run to their friends everytime they have an issue come up...instead of dealing with it on their own.
You can see how this can cause a lot of problems....I once made an off hand comment to one of my guy friends....I said." I like Laura a lot....she's a lot easier to talk to then Sherry" Well the way it got back to Laura was..." He thinks talking to you as much as he likes talking to Sherry" So you see how third hand information can screw things up royally.
So.?? Where does this leave you? Are you thinking about getting back with him? Cause he told the truth once? Or at least his "friends" are telling you he did? Who do you trust?
2006-07-23 20:04:29
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answered by werk2much2000 4
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What the hell are you talking about? Trust your own instincts and don't be so lame that you have to ask strangers on the computer what to do about your personal life. Get on with your life. You said, you found out he said some sh*t about you a couple YEARS later. Get over it, thats a long time ago!
2006-07-23 20:05:06
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answered by lilmech44 2
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I would stop with all the dramatic, over-analyzing bulls**t and MOVE ON. If this all happened a couple of years ago, why does it matter now? Sounds like he's still a "BIG player" and you're better off without him.
2006-07-23 20:07:52
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answered by archgrrrl 2
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very confusing, very, but seems to me the trust issue indeed is something ya'll (i'm from Texas) didn't have. You have to trust eachother. Also maybe you guys need to wait until you get a little older, because it seems maybe ya'll both aren't ready for anything yet. A true relationship should have to be based on "he said, she said".....good luck
2006-07-23 20:03:53
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answered by goose 2
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Ultimately no matter why you broke up if you get back together then the same issues will arise. Just keep concentration on why you dumped his sorry *** to begin with. You did the smart thing now stick with your decision.
2006-07-23 20:00:43
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answered by ? 2
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Be glad that he had enough respect for you to tell the truth and if he wants you back he'll call don't go calling him cause he may take it the wrong way. His interpretation of getting back together maybe different from yours.
2006-07-23 20:03:42
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answered by Countrygirl 5
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