My mom just talked to me about catching me with my best friend naked and doing stuff to each other at the same time, and I dont really know if I am OK or not. She asked on here today if I was normal and someone said I was, but I don't know if I am gay or not. We both really like girls but sometimes when we talk about girls we get excided and take care of each other. Am I OK? My mom said if you want you can write my mom and me at tinytimb90@yahoo.com if it might help me.
2006-07-23 12:45:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
We are both 13. We have been best friends all of our life.
2006-07-23 12:57:57 · update #1
I honestly don't think it is a problem. I am 13 too. Guys at my school do the same sorta stuff, it's so big deal. My mom is a guidance counselor and says it is just a phase...like having an imaginary friend or something like that every1 goes through it but we all grow out of it.
2006-07-26 07:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah R. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not talk about girls whenever you meet your friend. Ask him also to follow the same. Since you are only 13, concentrate more on studies. If you continue doing the same, you will after some time get attracted to men , ultimately landing into gay habits. So, be healthy, lead good sexual life after marriage. Now and then you can jack off if f you feel like doing so, but not frequently
2006-07-23 21:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by brilliant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry so much about it. It sounds like you around the age of 11 or 12. Thats normal. Just relax and go on with your life. Yeah it will be aqward for a while, but dont let it bother you.
2006-07-23 20:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by darkon332 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, once upon a time people never used the word homosexual for every thing the see as not normal. You are exploring an there is nothing wrong with that. You feel comfortable with you friend and safe. By exploring her body you are learning your body and what feels good to you. Please do not let something so natural become a nightmare for you.
2006-07-23 20:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Mirage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i sent you an email but i won't post it her because it is personal but my email is chipfrerich@yahoo.com if you got it so if you pick it as a best answer this is me but trust me i AM going through the same thing almost as you except i haven't looked at my best friend but you might be older than me and i am just living each day slowly hey it is ok if you are GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-07-23 19:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by chippychip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel better when your with a girl then with a boy, then you are gay ( which is PERFECTLY OK!) but if you feel the same around girls and guys and feel comfortable doing stuff with both then your bi. either way its all natural and trust me its normal =)
2006-07-23 19:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by xomjmx3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds as though you maybe both bisexual. you are normal. u dont indicate ur age group but if ur young say on ur teen years or 20s it could be that ur going through an experimental phase. its nothing to be ashamed of.
2006-07-23 19:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by sparkly little mermaid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all don't let one of these people change how u think. i DON'T think ur gay.its ok to do stuff like that.trust me if u get that exicted about girls then no ur not gay......maybe bi but most def. not gay.
p.s im 13 also
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2006-07-24 00:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry kid you and your friend are normal...you are going through puberty and are sexually curious....its not weird to explore each other bodies at this age...you will grow out of it eventually....
2006-07-23 22:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it ok that u did that and u are just trying 2 find your real true self so it's your chose
2006-07-23 19:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋