I just recently this week e:mailed my boyfriend's brother. Never spoken to him before this and e:mailed to ask about my boyfriend. So we start e:mailing back and forth for 2 hours. And he started telling me how they call him Superman cause of his accident. But then he starts calling me Lois. And saying how he looks better then my boyfriend and if I thought he was cute. Should I tell my boyfriend about it ? Stay quiet ? And is this flirting ? I mean it is to me. But I don't know
2006-07-23 12:33:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh I knew it seemed like some kind of elaborate scheme to stray from my boyfriend or say oh yes your cuter. I'm not a dummy nor did I answer his questions as he might have wanted. And I spoke to him for 2 hours cause I wanted to get to know him since he is my boyfriends brother I saw no big issue. Other then hey Lois
2006-07-23 12:40:29 · update #1
Ummmmmmmmm, I'd watch out on this one. It could be a setup to see if u would flirt bak with him. I would end the emails but not b4 telling him he's making u feel uncomfortable. That way if it is a set up ( and it may very well be) u would come acroos to your b/f as that ur not into his brother and that ur not gonna cheat on him. So u need to tell the brother u rather not email ech other again, because he's coming on too strong and u don't like it.
So end it NOW b 4 u get urself in trouble with ur boyfriend either way. If u don't end it ( and if it's a setup) he will be mad that u kept emailing his brother while his brother is flirting, and if u don't tell ur boyfriend he will think ummm she'll keep thing from me and if she flirts with my brother then she'll flirt with others behind my back.
So don't get urself into something u will regret later.
2006-07-23 15:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-25 20:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's flirting. If you tell your boyfriend he might get upset that you were e-mailing his brother for 2 hours. Just try to act like it didn't happen and if the brother brings it up or flirts again tell him how much you like his brother.
2006-07-23 12:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by ronron2021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is flirting with you, maybe trying to one-up his brother.....should you tell your bf? Maybe, if you care about your relationship more than the extra attention from his bro. Maybe you like the attention, but your enjoyment of it may be hurtful to your bf. Any relations with other guys that do not involve your bf (or relations you would not otherwise have if your bf were there) is cheating. Maybe you are with the wrong guy......
2006-07-23 12:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds that way to me, but the question ur man might have for u is why did u spend 2 hrs emailin his brotha back n forth maybe u led him to believe it was a 2 way thing..think about it..but u shouldnt hide things from ur man but think bout what all u said to him n if any of it could be misleadin on ur part as well.
2006-07-23 12:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like flirting to me....but what the heck are you e-mailing the brother to find out about your boyfriend???
Anyway.....keep it quiet...but just ignore any future flirtations.
you sure dont want to get between brothers in an argument and you sure dont want to be the cause of one.
2006-07-23 12:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, definitely flirting. He feels a connection with you and wants to further explore what he feels. He's treading on some pretty thin ice, though! This is his bro's girlfriend! Yikes!
I would not tell your b'friend and I would end the e-mailing with him asap . . .
2006-07-23 12:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm .... no dont tell just yet , you stay loyal to your boyfriend ... and dont get infected by his cheeting .... you look like a possy cat , hope u r an angel inside to know whats wrong and whats right ... whats right is to stop e-mailing this guy who is trying to know if his brother's girl is loyal to his brother ...
hope u will pass
2006-07-23 12:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by delayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably jsut jealous of his brother, or andgry with him and trying ro break you two up.
2006-07-23 12:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is and I would tell your boyfriend. Why did you talk to him for two hours?
2006-07-23 12:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋