i asked this question before an only one guy answered it i wan to no cause some girls i no said that boys r real immature even gay boys lik me but i dont agree cause i act real mature for my age
2006-07-23 12:28:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What I'm going to say is in no way meant to be mean or in an adult lecturing tone.
There is no such thing as a mature 13 year old. Rarely can anyone in their 20's be truly considered mature (I know because I am!) much less in their teens. Maturity is only something that comes with age and experience. You may not act as silly or have mood swings and such as much as your other friends (boy or girl), but your still only 13. You know what, ITS OK TO JUST BE 13. You may have a good head on your shoulders and that may well speed you towards becoming mature later in life.
In general girls tend to lose the silliness and "stupid" childlike behavior attributed to immaturity sooner than boys, but there is not cut and dry rule.
2006-07-23 12:35:42 · answer #1 · answered by chalis913 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Biologically and mentally, girls mature faster. That's why most female are into older males. Though at 13 you may not be at adult maturity, but compared to a 13-year-old male you are most likely at a higher level of maturity.
2006-07-23 19:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♥M.a.s.q.u.e.r.a.d.e.™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 13!!! im 19 and im not even mature, dont try to grow up so fast, you have your whole life to be a slave to money... stay a kid and live immaturely because its a rough road ahead in the city of maturity
2006-07-23 19:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls mature much faster than guys do, even if your 20 guys will act like theyre still 16 or 17. dont worry, i face the same problem, im 15 and many guys my age i wouldnt date because they act like my 4 yr old nephew. but there are guys your own age that are the same muturity. dont worry theyll grow out of it when they get older (around 25-30 yrs old)
2006-07-23 19:32:40 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm... i think guys are usually more immature, they feel the need to constantly joke around and they have to look good in front of "the guys" but you know there are some normal guys out there that do act mature.... and there are also some girls that act immature.... but my personal opinion is that girls do age and immature faster then guys
2006-07-23 19:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i don't think that girls r more mature than boys (even though almost all the boys i no think about one thing only and that makes them seem VERY IMMATURE), but it seems to me like boys take more chances than girls and like doing stupid things that a normal girl wouldn't usually do. that's just my opinion, but i'm only 13 and someone older might think differently. i, for being a girl, think that i understand boys more than most girls and i no that boys aren't less mature than girls, but sometimes they act like it!
2006-07-23 19:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 12or 13 girls mature faster that guys ,read a biology book and you`ll find out
2006-07-23 19:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by emilo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it really matters on the type of person you are, some people are mature and some are not. and guys are really diffrent from girls they don't talk about one another the way girls do, but they also have nothing to hide there open and have no same ...lol
2006-07-23 19:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by FlAwL3ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that girls mature faster than boys. boys don't mature as fast as girls. it takes them longer. lol
2006-07-23 19:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Snowfox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depeneds on the person and how that person wants to act really........
2006-07-23 19:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by dedeanna101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋