I watched a video of a sleepover I had when I was 6 and me and my buddy were kissing (lips) and hugging a lot and screaming and flashing each other. I don't even remember this. My dad keeps laughing at me and saying, "The truth is out son, haha, the truth is out get the neighbors, I am telling the pastor"
2006-07-23 11:55:44 · 29 answers · asked by SlapADog 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You were 6.. Alot of kids do that kind of stuff when they are that age. If you don't want to be sexually intimate with a guy NOW you are not gay. Simple as that. Your dad is just teasing you.
2006-07-23 13:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by ockristy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Your dad is a jerk.
Nothing in your letter would represent that you are gay. What do you fantasize about now as an adult? Do you date women? Have you had sex with members of either or both sexes as an adult.
A parent who teases a child, even a nearly adult child about something so intensely personal needs therapy. I don't mean to put your father down, but first off, his attitude says that the things there is something wrong with you if you DO happen to be gay. Secondly, he tries to destroy your self esteem.
Is he worried that you'll be more successful in life than he has been, or what? I'd suggest you sit him down and say that he is hurting your feelings by teasing in this manner, and that he is also exhibiting a prejudice that you don't share.
2006-07-23 22:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know by now. The goings-on when you were six may have been a hint, but they may have just been youthful play and exploration. Are you attracted to men? Are you attracted to women? Have you had sex with either gender? Did you enjoy it? These are all questions you can ask yourself and analyze the answers to get a pretty darned good idea of whether or not you are gay.
2006-07-23 20:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not neceassarily, you should know though if you are gay or not! But, it is very common for children so young to act this way! It's a form of exploring each other, and learning about each other! Every child does it, whether they want to admit it or not! But it doesn't make you gay, unless at that age, you knew you were different!
2006-07-23 20:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by munkypoo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol !!! What do you think! Do you feel gay!
Seriously now, all kids do staff when they are young since they don't have such a clear view of what sexuality is (especially theirs)
I think if you were gay you would knew it already. If however you want to be sure, trying gay sex is the only way to find out if you like it or not
Good luck
2006-07-23 19:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by johny g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder what kind of videos the Pastor took of you as a kid.
***shudder***
Also the fact that you touch yourself while watching these videos says a lot.
2006-07-23 18:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only YOU know the truth to this.
And regarding your dad: Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier. He is just mentally abusing you.
2006-07-23 18:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by herbst01k23h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did ANYTHING you did when you were 6 have any signifigant impact on your life as an adult?
The answer is no, it doesn't.
I would be so messed up if I did everything I did when I was 6!!
2006-07-23 19:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really t h ink that means your gay but if you were nothing would be wrong with you either you were just kids goofing off
do you you know what girls do alot more then that i think it depends more on how you felt at the time i think women are just as sexy as men are i think it's more of a problem if we hate eachother
2006-07-23 19:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm... did your dad often take videos of you and your friends kissing and flashing? Can you say PERV?
And BTW, yes... you are gay.
2006-07-24 13:34:47 · answer #10 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋