A boy keeps following me around and calling me all day and I don't like him, and I want him to leave me alone, and the other day he kissed me against my will. I've already told him i don't like him, but he won't stop. I like another guy a lot, how do i get HIM to notice me?
2006-07-23 11:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by when_it_happens 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
get your man to talk to him!
2006-07-23 11:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the guy you don't like, I think you should seriously tell him that he'd better stop because you don't like this. If he doesn't, then you should tell someone about it because that would be sexual harassment (kissing you against your will). And the other guy that you like, you should only be yourself so he would like you for who you really are. Try talking to him casually and keep the conversation going by asking him about his favorite sports, what he does in his free time, etc. Tell him a little about yourself as well. That way you'll get to know him while he gets to know you as well. Make sure you smile and be confident, and keep eye contact. Good Luck! :)
2006-07-23 18:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by iluvcherries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stand up to that guy that does like you. Push him away and tell him to stop. If he doesn't stop, my advice is to get a restraining order. And to get the guy you like to notice you, well when you see him walk by and just say hi. Think of something yall both like and have a conversation about it. Once yall get to know each other better ask him if he can "help you study" if you know what I mean.
2006-07-23 18:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by VOllEYbAll036 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off tell the guy you don't like him and if he keeps going for you start tearing apart his confidence by telling him his breathe stinks or his cllothes smell funny are ask if he put on deoderant and if he put enough on. To get the other guy to notice you just go up to him and start asking random questions and put your hand on his arm.
2006-07-23 18:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by SlapADog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the the guy that is following you to go the hell on, in these cases you must get loud and mean.only after you embarrass him will he get the point, the only way to get the guy you do like to notice you, you must position youreself where he will be, but act like you dont notice him at first,then give the eye contact, toss your hair, and smile
2006-07-23 18:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you need to take a different way of confronting the boy that already likes you ... but you don't like him......i know you probably will think i'm crazy but maybe the guy that already likes you has a secret that you don't know ...maye he is alot like you give him a chance......how old are you anyway?....... and about the guy that you like...........he can wait.....take care of the guy interested in you....bring it to him gently cause i got my heart brokeen and it wasn't to me gently be careful with another persons feelings........it hurts honey ...my boyfriend broke up with me and other people were hurting me and i thought i could depend on him but he left me cause he didn't understand..........maybe your not the one understanding him.......? hope it helps {probably not but be gentle specially if your someone like thirteen or somthin or eleven it sounds like}
2006-07-23 18:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by brokenheart235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the one who kissed you against your will....call a cop/parent/teacher......if he doesn't learn to respect your boundaries now....he will continue to push. To get the other one to like you.....be yourself. If he doesn't like you for that, what does it matter if he likes you for following anyone's advice?
2006-07-23 18:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by anysomeone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to go out and just talk to him! be outgoing, most guys like that. Talk, and become his friend. Then let the other guy see you with the guy you like he might get the point.
2006-07-23 18:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by xlindsey_xlu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to know that guy you like . For example if you know the people he hangs out with, invite him and his friends to hang out with you, and your friends. just try to find out what type of person he is interested in.
2006-07-23 18:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by It's my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have sex with the other boy and that way you'll kill two birds with one sling.
2006-07-23 20:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by happyface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋