me and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby for a few months now and even though we have been using a fertillity calender nothing seems to be working ive just had my period and we were both absolutly gutted as we thought that maybe this time we might have done it, im 18 and hes 20 but its what we really want can you help us please????
2006-07-23 10:48:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
don't listen to these peoples smart remarks the girl didn't ask for your opinions on marriage she asked it on how to get pregnant.
I'm in the same boat as you. Ive been trying for 5 months now and no luck yet with this boyfriend, i was pregnant before and got an abortion it was the wrong guy.
anyways it might be your man get his sperm tested,I'm about to have my boyfriend get his tested if they say hes fine its just all a matter of time
but for now try having sex every other day and start right after your period, tell him not to jerk off and to save it . don't take a hot shower before you have sex it kills the sperm, have sex with him on top or doggy style. try not to drink alot of caffeine, but he should.
don't get up right after sex, try to fall asleep
don't use any lubrication it may kill the sperm.
2006-07-23 11:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you need to ask this question you shouldn't be having kids
how old are you?
if you are not either married or have graduated form collage and have a good job don't have children they are wonder full but your life will never be the same after you have a child all those things that you thought you would like to be and do in life forget it your life will become all about making your child healthy happy and safe and then what you wont will maybe cross your mined
if you are asking positions try looking for kamasutra I think that is how it is spelled in the library or a book store there for if you are to young they wont let you see it anyway
SORRY JUST READ THE REST OF YOUR ? ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR MINED HAVE A LIFE THE MAKE A LIFE
2006-07-23 11:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by mikel m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been having unprotected sex with the same partner for 12 months without achieving pregnancy, then it's time to see a doctor. Until then, don't worry.
You also may want to re-evaluate your situation. My husband and I were your and your husband's age when we had our son and it was SO hard. He ended up joining the military and being injured in Iraq because that was the only way he could find work that would support his family and offer health insurance for our family since neither one of us have our college degrees yet. I am now 27 and he is 29 and still have not graduated from college because its a million times harder to get degree if you have children at home.
Take some time to work on your relationship, get your degree, GET MARRIED, find careers with health insurance and good pay, buy a house, THEN think about having children. You will not regret it if you wait, TRUST ME.
2006-07-23 11:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by sumnerrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are some tips i can give you, but first don't get a baby except after marriage.
1) he has to do a semen analysis and you have to make ultrasound and lab. tests.
2) if you are both ok try to avoid the 6-10 after your period and the 6-10 days before the next one.
3) try not to *** you and him at the same time because it makes you contract and repel his semen (***)
4) after intercourse don't get up or take a shower at once and lay on your back for 20-30 min.
5) make sure when he cums to bush his penis inside as far as he can so it will be easier for his sperms.
2006-07-23 11:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
Leave the fertility calendar aside for a moment. After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 5 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-07-24 01:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its just not the right time for you theres nothing you can do about it god will let you when he thinks your ready we've been trying for 7 months and nothing has happend its extremely frusterating just keep tr ying and dont think about it if you can keep from it goodluck
some people are such assholes if you dont like her ? dont respond to it and ho w the hell did all of yall become so perfect that you can tell someone else when and when they cant have a child and for sandblast lay off i hope you never recreate!!
2006-07-23 11:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this. Have him to go off in u missionary style and lay there for ten minutes afterward before you move.It was in a fertlility book.Also one of you may not be fertile enough. Maybe you should both get checked out.
2006-07-23 10:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be God is trying to help u form making one of the biggest mistakes in ur life.. u are to young to have a child..GO livelife then when ur BF MARRIES u have children
2006-07-23 10:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by tre770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is either something going on w/ your overies or his soldiers aint marching so both of you needs to get checked out and i hope nothing is wrong but there is like an 80% chance there is so keep praying! one day your baby will come to you even if its not really yours you can always adopt
2006-07-23 10:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about getting married before trying for a baby???? just saying,,,,, 'cause normally when the baby come, the man of the house turns his back and run away........ Men are scared about responsibility and commitment,,,, so ,,,, if he is ready for a child,,, he might be ready to marry first,,,, don't you think,,,,,
And about your question,,, I assure there is nothing wrong with you,,,,, just take it easy and relax,,,, eventually the baby will come....!
2006-07-23 10:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋