What is it about being romanticly/sexually involved with girl/boy next door or fantasizing about it so atractive to teenagers?
2006-07-23 10:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by Robby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
its the idea that you have grown up with this person. played with them outside when you were little. shared many precious memories. have a very strong bond as freinds and you trust each other and feel safe and comfortable with him/her and you know the person well enough that it seems so natural
2006-07-23 13:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, the "boy/girl next door" use to be the girl/boy you would bring home to mama; the one you grew up with and was a friend with when you were a kid. I don't think it involved sex at the time; that was the whole point. It was a pure relationship that turned to love.
2006-07-23 10:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. The actuall concept makes it seem that the girl or boy is very attractive, hot looking person. Its like the person is a freak in bed but the person you want to bring to your parents outside of the bedroom
2006-07-23 10:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by twash77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safe experimental relationship that CANNOT go anywhere because of TWO sets of hawk-eyed, battle-wise, kill-joy, dictatorially monitoring parents-and no extended windows of opporunity.
Besides, just how involved can a person get with somebody who finked their shooting robins with a pellet-rifle last spring or who got their mudpies for their dolls stolen and then found them in your dog's kennel? --NOT VERY BLOODY LIKELY, I'd say.
So--there it is. It's like having a "sort of" sister or brother that could be OK for fun and games but who is just as off-limits as the real ones because of prevailing conditions.
2006-07-23 10:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, it's attractive to all age groups because it's attainable. and something that MIGHT actually happen. personally, i've never had a thing for boy's next door... but i did have a thing for those bad boys. oh, tommy lee you are a god! A GOD!!!
2006-07-23 10:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Not Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been going out with my neighbor for 4 years now! No problems here, it just ended up that way!
2006-07-23 10:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by snowbomb7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think anything romantic or sexual is appealing to a teenager!
2006-07-23 10:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well me i dont like the good boys for some reason i like the bad ones the ones that have chain necklaces, smokes weed gets drunk parties and dates a lot i really dont know why i like them.
2006-07-23 11:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Annmarie V 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because any movie that has sex in a movie is interesting to teenagers
2006-07-23 10:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Little Money 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well for one they either grew up with them or school and played together at school and then they grew up into young men or women thats why.
2006-07-23 10:33:33 · answer #10 · answered by LENORE P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋