way too infrequent. she responds that at least i get one every once in a while, not like so and so who never gets it. i respond, that's irrelevant, it's just you and me, not statistics or something.
2006-07-23 10:15:55 · 51 answers · asked by QHS4791 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not by asking on the world wide web! I'd kick your butt out!
2006-07-23 10:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it would not. When Paul talks about marriage in his letters to the churches, he uses the singular context of a husband and A wife (he does not say a husband and his wives). People assume that just because the men in the Bible had more than one wife, then that must have meant God was okay with it. That is wrong. God may have allowed it, but that is not the same thing as condoning it. What man does is not always the equivalent of what God desires for man. There were nations that worshiped idols; God allowed it (he let it happen), but he did NOT condone it (he was not okay with it and he did not approve of it). There are men that had only one wife: Job (although I believe his first wife died), Moses, Noah, Adam, Isaac; I believe Jacob would have had only one wife had his relative not tricked him. You notice that while David and Solomon were godly men (God called David a man after His own heart), their lives were full of trouble and conflict. This is why most Christians look to the books of Psalms and Proverbs in times of TROUBLE, to remind us that God can deliver us from the hardships we bring upon ousrselves. Don't you think part of David and Solomon's problems stemmed from having so more than one woman, even if the Bible doesn't specifically state that? You don't think there is anywhere in the Bible where God prohibits a polygamous marriage. But I can tell you with a lot of confidence that there is nowhere in the Bible where God explicitly (or even implicitly) condones a polygamous marriage (or relationship). If you read the Song of Solomon, you will notice that it is a very sensual book: it is a book written to reflect the beauty of marriage between a man and a woman. When the man is speaking of his beloved, he only has one and not multiple beloveds--and that book was written by Solomon, the man with a thousand women. I honestly think Solomon as well as David would be the first to tell you that in marriage you only need one woman.
2016-03-16 22:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is you are arguing and trying to be in control. although this isnt an overnight fix and youll never find one short of exchanging a wife for a gf. express what you like and back off when she does do it get excited and let her know how much you love it when she does it then back off again till the next time. the more praise and the more she is in control the more she will responde. enjoy compliment and stay away from acting as if asking would fix. you are a man and a man begging isnt going to win anything with a woman except for an occastional concestion. good luck
2006-07-23 10:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by this... you probably used up all your male intuition.
She probably out grew you and your porn collection with your high school charms, whistles, flowers, throwing out of beer cans-thinking you're doing her a favor attitude. Sorry dude, once a woman have enough nothing in hell can lure her back for a full night of Ecstasy. So your best bet is to buy her stuff, she do it as a favor or an exchange for still being your wife if she likes you as a friend. Pretty things shouldn't only be given with sexual favors or waiting for holidays you dork. In plain words you are fuc ked. Hope you didn't have an affair, forgot to shave or enter someone without a condom?
2006-07-23 10:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by NEMESIS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Might be a generational thing, I find women in their 20's - 30 almost consider it like a kiss, while thos in their late 40's find it demeaning or unhealthy. Exceptions to every case though, so I agree with the other repondent that if you go down on her more ofter it might open other doors for you.
2006-07-23 10:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by FRANK B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shower once in a while.
Maybe if you did something for HER she'd feel like doing something for YOU.
Get off the damn computer and the sofa and pick up the vaccum cleaner and do a load of laundry and wash some dishes and see how fast it turns her attitude about "servicing you" around.
2006-07-23 10:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nicer treat her with respact and do something for her without being asked and it doesn't have to be sexual if she feels appreciated maybe she will want to be nicer to you also stop bringing up the subject about how often and try telling her how much you really enjoy it and why play to the emotions and avoid arguement make her feel like she is the love of your life that's why you married her right
2006-07-23 10:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by aeval_anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could return the favor and lick her and then move her to the 69 position so she is getting something out of it also. It seems like if you lick her, then maybe she will be more willing to return the favor.
2006-07-23 10:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you return the favor with a Little
eating out or perhaps 69 is another idea
2006-07-23 10:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by BONE° 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask nicely. Flowers. Return the favor frequently.
2006-07-23 10:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know ths sounds corny, but ask her if she doesn't like giving them? Maybe you need to do something special to get her moods up so you can get "frequent" blowjobs...maybe just asking plain "Can you give me a bl*wj*b" just makes her mad or upsets her that you dont want to pleasure her...know what I mean???
2006-07-23 10:19:44 · answer #11 · answered by HideAnotherMistake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋