ok well me and my bf havin been goin out for a year and .......?

Question

well me and my bf cody have been together for a year so i thought it was the right time and the reasons we do not use condoms because we were goin to and i tried with a condom like 10 times and it would juss rub against me and hurt so i didnt want to we decided to not use no methood and juss let nature take its course if god literaly realli wants me to get pregnant then ok i will deal woth it but from havin tender breast and back aches and headaches and peeing constantly and tired is a sign of pregnancy or not cause i took a test today and it was negitave but i had sex on the 12 was too early to detect pregnancy or not thanks for the help chel-c

Answer 1

so ur worry that ur preg. right?

Answer 2

Honey, you're only 14!! My gosh, how could you even not even think to continue using protection? Getting pregnant is not all in God's hands!!! You don't get pregant because God says "It is your time to become pregnant!". You get pregant because you are not being protected and when the man comes, the sperm meets up with the egg to form a embryo (baby). You seriously need to think about this!! It could ruin your life!! I am 17, and I want a baby soon, but not that soon!

~*~SIGNS OF PREGNANCY~*~
1. MISSED PERIOD>>A missed menstrual cycle can be a sign of pregnancy. It is usually the first indicator of pregnancy, although some women claim to know they are pregnant before they miss a period.
2. TENDER BREASTS>>Tender swollen breasts are another early symptom. While tender breasts are a symptom of an impending menstrual cycle, enlarged breasts are not. Sore and swollen breasts with a tingling sensation can be an early indicator of pregnancy.
3. NAUSEA & MORNING SICKNESS>> Nausea associated with morning sickness can be a sign that a woman is pregnant. Many women say that they've had nausea up to two weeks before an expected menstrual period and before any other symptom. *FREQUENT URINATION (GOING TO THE BATHROOM A LOT)>> Frequent urination in pregnancy usually occurs between 6 to 8 weeks after conception.
4. SPOTTING>>Spotting is a common symptom in pregnancy. Some women report what seems to be a short light period before the onset of other symptoms. This may be implantation bleeding and not a menstrual period at all (when the egg implants itself into the lining of the uterus).
5. STRANGE CRAVINGS>> When pregnant, you will start developing cravings for strange food (peanut butter and with your tacos as an example)

I really hope that you are not pregnant, since you are only 14. Exactly when is your next period supposed to be? When did you start feeling these symptoms? It sounds like you have a lot of the signs of pregnancy. Go to your doctor or wait about 1-2 weeks and take the test again. You can go to the doctors without having your parents know. Planned Parenthood can set an appoitment up for you.

Answer 3

ok the reason the condom was hurting you was kause you werent wet enough so ger some lubrication from like any drugstore or get him to eat you out and the condom will feel much better. but me personally dont like using condoms for that reason so i got on birth contolll but i still use them sometimes. but then again i am only having se x with one person so i am not going to get a std. and if you dont know how to get on birth controll tell your mom that you are having horrible periods and they are heavy and that you need to go to the gyno and they will get you on it.

Answer 4

want a few more days and take the test again

Answer 5

being 14 yrs old, and having sex, not good idea!!