2006-07-23 10:00:16 · 25 answers · asked by ladyoblivion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You aren't ruining their relationship, your husband's best mate is. That is no friend at all. Let your husband know that he needs to find a new best mate and why!
Best of luck!
2006-07-23 10:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by ididntdoitthedogdid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your english, but from an american point of veiw your husband should always be told. flip the coin, if it was your best mate and asking your husband for a closer relationship?
you know exactly what you would do if your husband didnt tell you, you would assume he was seriousely considering it or even worse. best thing is when married you never ever keep a secret even if may cause a problem with him and his best mate as your marriage is more important. also if this guy is of that kind of moral character, why would you want him hanging out with your hubby anyhow, i wouldnt trust him. a best mate is one who looks out for your best intrest and helps keep you out of trouble. not hits on you while his so-called best mate turns his back.
i say tell your hubby, he is a grown man and should know the type of people he brings home.
ps are you sure your hubby didnt put him up to it to see if you would cheat.? if so the best answer is still tell your hubby
2006-07-23 17:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by joe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm
this is a silly silly question! you never mess with your husbands friends, or wife friends that is grounds for a *** whooping! Let your husband know that his friend is coming on to you, that is very disrespectful, and deceptive! You must have given this relationship some thought, because your question appears here! WHAT would u think if situations were reversed and it was one of your gal pals that was doing the pursuing with your mate, I dont think you would be all happy! the motto is treat others how YOU want to be treated! and also think about what you would want him to do to you or not do!
2006-07-23 17:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by rayjenne24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to ruin their friendship? You should be worried and not wanting to ruin your marriage. If your marriage is that bad that you are even considering this, then leave the marriage, then find a man on your own, don't ever date your husbands friends.
2006-07-23 17:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by naturally_loveable_43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you, woman??? Are you enjoying his attention that much? Are you that needy that you would jeapordize your relationship with your husband by putting up with this crap his friend is dishing out? He's disrespecting you and your husband. Here's what you do; next time he goes into his "want to be closer act" tell him if he does this again, you will fall on the floor and scream and tell your husband he tried to rape you. Who do you think your husband will believe? I guarantee he will stop coming on to you when you show him you mean business. Stop the flirting with him, by the way.
2006-07-23 17:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing like a canary to your husband. Let him know his mate is wanting to make moves on you. His mate is not a real friend, he's a wolf in sheep's clothing and cannot be trusted.
2006-07-23 17:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband doesn't have a true friend there, and if you get "close" to him then he doesn't have a faithful wife either. Just tell the jerk to bugger off and leave you alone, unless you really want to ruin your husband's life.
2006-07-23 17:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't talk to your husband about it maybe you prefer to ruin your relationship as husband and wife. That fire you're dealing with
2006-07-23 17:03:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about their friendship. He's not! Tell your husband and put an end to this jerk's flirtations. By you not telling, you are giving the impression you may be interested.
2006-07-23 17:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sugar he has only one thing on his mind and he is not your husband's best mate if he is making a pass at you. you need to make your husband aware of what is going on. that way it will not be turned around on you in anyway. be careful and good luck.
2006-07-23 17:05:44 · answer #10 · answered by aenease5974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋