Most men come with baggage I don't want!!!!
2006-07-23 09:58:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just about everyone comes with baggage of some description. i think chatting to someone online is a great way to get to know them first,before the chemistry aspect comes into play.
Just be sure to ask plenty of soul searching questions to find their true personality,also if you really like them after a while get their address and home phone number,my female friends tell me this really helps to sort the players(married men) from the genuine guys out there.
Good Luck !
2006-07-23 10:05:16 · answer #1 · answered by any 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could meet someone who you will love really, any time, any place.. It could be in the shop, at school, at work, online or via friends and relatives.
Of course, you're right not to let the men into your life with the "baggage"..Just make sure that you're not caring some baggage yourself. Sometimes the other person's are only our "mirrors"..We can read a lot about ourselves only analysing the people we're dating..
2006-07-23 12:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love comes in different sizes and shapes. Its everywhere. The problem is to recognize it when you find it. It can happen anytime anyplace, it plays by no ones rules or with any directions on how to find your perfect love. Love is like a game of chance, you just have to take as many chances as you can til you find the right one, thus the problem of recognizing it, when love appears. It may or may not come with attached baggage, but with questions like this you may not have a choice since they arent exactly knocking your door down. It is true that if you look too hard you will never find it. It usually comes at the most unexpected time,so probably when you least expect it, you will be swept off your feet. Good luck in your journey and may you find your dreams!
2006-07-23 10:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look for real love in your heart. you will know when you find him. and yes men do come with baggage and things you dont want, because they are not perfect. i bet they feel women come with baggage too. there will always be things you dont like about people, but real love, is when you can see the things you dont like, and still love them exactly the same, unconditionally.(and they feel the same of course). i guess it happens when and only when you are ready, you cant put whats, whys, whens, and wheres on real love, because you can only know those answers, when you find it.
2006-07-23 11:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nadine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't go looking for it. It will find you when it is time. Not only men but women both if they have been married before or with children come with much baggage.
2006-07-23 10:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found love on the internet, but then there was quite a few frogs before the prince, but i had a laugh and learnt alot about myself, as long as your sensible
2006-07-24 23:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Carlette D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-25 22:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by vavoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋