why is this?

Question

ok im a high school student ppl say im popular, i wear hollister and a&f and my boyfriend is on the baseball team (u kno in like the highschool movies the football players and really popluar and have all the girls well at my school thats how the baseball team is)and alot of ppl dont like me and my friends casue they think that we think where better than everyone elese espelly the goths but how do i get ppl to get to know me b4 they judge me

i do try to talk to ppl but they always make funn they call me a perp, airhead, hore , and i could go on im not the mena one they are

Answer 1

People will always judge you. If they say they don't judge that's not true. Everyone is always put into a category but that is life. You judge someone but never use that to define anyone. If they don't bother to get to know you it isn't worth your time and effort. Don't worry, be yourself. You can't always be friends with everyone and you will always have someone that doesn't like you.

Answer 2

Y do ppl always judge on how u look and how your bf is?They might not like the rest of u.Ya some ppl tell me that too.A lot of ppl make up stuff like every likes u because of how u look,but that's not true.They don't realize a lot of things about ppl.Even though they look pretty doesn't mean they're not smart.Just because they're not popular doesn't mean they're dorks.The inside counts.Here's a tip.Try and talk to them.Chat with them on a messenger.Give them compliments.There r many things u can do with ppl before they judge u.If u see someone mistreated or feeling down hang out with the person.

Answer 3

the kind of clothes u wear should not make u "popular" material. i think if you think taht way then its a hint that u think u are better than the "goths" the goths probably wear clothes that cost just as much if not more. i fu brag about wearing "name brand" crap it doesnt make u look any less concited. if you talk to every one and try to get along with all the cliques in ur school then u shouldnt have to feel so bad. iwhen i was in school, there were plenty of punks and preps and skaters that all had friends in each group. they may not have hung out with the other groups much but all got along just fine. of course not every one can get along with every one.. it just is not possible.
but just try. it wont hurt

Answer 4

again- all this highschool crap doesnt mean anything-- think back to kindergarten, anything from then matter to you now? of course not- same will be when u grow up and get a job-- why do u wear AE? who cares who ur bf is? be you own person-- thats what people like-- most people probably think u are fake and a wannabe- step back and really look at who are and what contribution you make to society

Answer 5

just act the way ppl r and don't think u r the center of attention.
try 2 be nice 2 other ppl who r not friends with u!
remember u r not the center of attention!

Answer 6

have you tried to go up and talk to them, if you don't no wonder they think your stuck and better then everyone else. go and talk. also don't walk around with your nose up in the air, it wont win points. if you continue to ignore this and don't talk, 20 years down the line, they'll be the upper class and you the underdog. they will turn out to be your boss. trust I'm one of those people and I'm doing so much better then those "jocks" and "cheerleaders". half of them are on welfare. talk to them, they remember

Answer 7

I would drp my see if I could go back to the 3 rd grade and learn how to spell

Answer 8

OK, first of all wearing specific clothing does NOT make you popular. Maybe you should re-word this whole entire question, and then ask.

Answer 9

Try to be nice to them, and i know that you are and stuff, but when you pass someone in the hall, say like "Hey, love the shirt" or something.

Answer 10

yeah u should get to know u they might be superficial