It seem to be that I'm attractive to the guys with lots of unwanted bagged...
2006-07-23 09:50:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The reason we attract guys with lots of unwanted baggage is because we haven't begun to look for love within ourselves first.
Once we love and respect ourselves, we tend to attract healthier relationships.
The baggage guys will still be knocking at your door, but you will be able to immediately weed them out and find that you are one step closer to finding a man who can compliment your life.
Where do you find these men? They are right there mixed in with the baggage guys. That's why its so important to find that love and self respect within yourself first.
Best of luck!
2006-07-23 10:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by ididntdoitthedogdid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea, you and about 90% of the other people...It seems so romantic to take a mess and give them a life...trouble is, they are in the mess they are in for a really good reason..they are messes. Better to wait for the decent stuff to come along. Play shining knight on a white charger is fun for a while, but after many failures, a smart person starts to wise up and ... with any self esteem at all, will figure they are worth a person who is baggage free and has a winner in them. I am so over the losers I could scream, so I am putting on the brakes and laying back..I am worth the best out there, so why not settle for just that. Take my advice and do the same thing. Good luck
2006-07-23 09:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont look for love...let it come to you. cheesy yes but it is true (at least from my own experience)...ive looked for love and it sure as hell hasnt actually come to me yet...ive dated and loved but it wasnt that genuine love that feels right all the time...if one looks for it he or she might force it (like i have done in the past bending my own standards of love to match what i had), let it come to you and in the mean time do something you enjoy...but wait and it will all fall into place...:)
2006-07-24 07:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant look for love it finds you,this happens truely,when you stop looking for it and take aback seat it will show up in front of you and it will take you and everything that comes along with you,you will find your soal mate
2006-07-23 10:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the soul is always a good place to start looking. if a guy starts to show you his soul, that can only be good.
2006-07-23 09:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont look for love. True love will find you no matter where you are.
2006-07-23 09:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by wordykat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gent belgium
2006-07-26 22:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by Nicolas L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holland
2006-07-23 23:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by D T P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you look for it you'll never find it
2006-07-23 09:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by northukstudent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋