A guy i have met about two weeks ago.he told me he is in love with me.soo i start studing his life. and got found that, he is stilling have a nice contact with her ex-girlfriend .i think that he is still together with his girlfriend. because their phones conversations shows that, they are in love with each other.should i leave them/him or love him too. Please help me.
2006-07-23 09:42:35 · 11 answers · asked by Abi nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't play games. You have nothing to lose since its in the beginning stage of your relationship. Confront him! If you don't, you will always wonder.
2006-07-23 09:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone until he she is no longer in his life. If you don't, the two of you could settle into a never-ending affair where you're not getting everything you deserve from a relationship. You could be very in love with each other, but still, if he is unwilling to leave her behind, it will be a matter of how long you are willing to handle the pain. By then you're so attached to him that you just can't give up...
2006-07-23 09:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by beadtheway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going solely on what you've written here, it would suggest that removing yourself from this situation would be better for you.
If he is indeed still in regular contact with an ex-girlfriend then he isn't seriously ready for anyone new. If he were genuinely 'in love' with you, it wouldn't occur to him to be calling another woman.
I would find out firstly whether it's the ex-girlfriend calling him (perhaps she can't let go herself) before deciding your next move.
These situations can become toxic and nobody needs that in their life.
Good luck.
~A-M~
2006-07-23 09:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by missbuttrfly68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on too. You don't need all that extra baggage or a guy that is still "friends" with his ex. All it takes is one fight between you two and he'll go running back into her arms.
2006-07-23 12:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by oremus_fratres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, leave the guy alone. Even if he wasn't in love with the other woman, he's two-timing both of you. Are you that needy? Leave them alone.
2006-07-23 09:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes leasve him dont even tell him why just dont call him change your emails and phone numbers if he finds you and asks then tell him your not interested in a cheater,move on and dont go looking for love let it find you you will be the real thing
2006-07-23 09:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he knows what love really meant? he just barely know you and he said that? i dont think he is in love with. he is just using you. dont be tempted with those kind of guys and still communicating with his ex-gf. there are a lot of guys out there who is more deserving than this maniac guy. dont go out with him anymore. go out with your friends and family. that will help you to forget him.
2006-07-23 09:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit. All he is trying to do is play games with you. If you don't you will regret it.
2006-07-23 09:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Widowed dad in michigan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! he told you he loved you just so you would put out.
2006-07-23 09:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not waste anymore time on this guy. He has "Player" written all over him.
2006-07-23 09:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋