I just found out that my brothers new wife has been chatting online with guys. She spends all his $$$, he is in the armed forces and out of state, should I confront her or tell him?
2006-07-23 09:31:38 · 14 answers · asked by jan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her she needs to come clean with her husband, and if she won't you will.
2006-07-23 09:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think at first try to understand exactly what she does and then if you found something wrong then tell your brother indirectly. if something happens for example they have an argue with each other probably at last every thing may brake down on your head so be carefull not to do wrong that then all says it was your fault.
2006-07-23 16:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I understand your desire to protect your brother, I would stay out of it. Because there is potential for your sister-in-law to make your brother think that you're just being a trouble maker. Unless you walk in on her actually physically cheating, I would keep my mouth shut.
2006-07-23 16:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would do both, if she start lying to you. beat her down, than tell your brother. make sure you got something to show him or somethings. sometimes. people in your family dont always listen or believe you.
2006-07-23 17:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you do either have proof. solid proof to back it up. then confront both of them with the proof.
2006-07-23 16:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both if i were you i'd confront her first if thats doesn't work then tell your bro. but be careful she could be one of them hurtful tipes
2006-07-23 16:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He can take care of the rest.
2006-07-23 16:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by fromdheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell him and see and if he does nothing tell her and just get more info like who she has been talkin to and see what after
2006-07-23 16:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you want to be a good sis but let him find out on his own . ok.. good luck.
2006-07-23 16:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do both with strong diplomacy.
2006-07-23 16:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋