How do u know if your bf likes your best friend more than his gurlfriend? I am asking this becuz he used to like(suposibly)my best friend be4 we started goin out....i still think he likes her but does anyone know how i can maybe tell if he likes her?...well i hope you can help me i have been on 2 sites that give you answeres to the questions you ask and i still am looking 4 an answere..lol.
2006-07-23 09:13:30 · 16 answers · asked by samilla_neal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
start talking about her. say that you him and your friend should go out together sometime and just hang out. if he resoponds enthusiastically then he likes her. if not you should still go out together and see if he flirts with her in any subtle ways. good luck!
2006-07-23 09:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you will need to do a lot steps, well not that much.
1.Watch him when he's around your best friend.
2.If you think he likes your best friend more then talk to your best friend. Tell her to stay away from your boyfriend.
3.Or you can talk to your boyfriend. If you think he's lying that he doesn't like your best freind then try dont talk to him for a few days. See how he respone to that.
Hey, I think this might work too, but you have to do a little bit of lying.Well, tell your boyfriend that your best friend got sick like a fever.And see how he respone to that. Maybe he will just say okay..and after you left he will go see your best friend.Spy on him, but I know it's a bad thing to do.Well, at least it will help you to solve your problems. Also if he says like how was your best friend, and you don't think your bf is very worry then I think he likes you better..
Good luck!
2006-07-23 16:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you, him,and her ever just hung out?Cauze I've been in a similar situation but my boyfriend never found out.And the other guy well I always caught him looking at my butt or saying something on the side when my boyfriend walked away. So Keep your eyes open.And besides when you feel that way you are nine times out of ten correct
2006-07-23 17:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by rae2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have a red flag because he has dated your best friend and now you of course he still has feelings for her they don't just go away especailly when he is still being around her. Just watch how he looks at her when she's around you both, and watch the eye contact. Me personally I would not want someone my best friend had that is just not good to much drama and I would not feel comfortable in that type of situation. Follow your instincts please.
2006-07-23 16:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to see if your bestfriend likes him! How do you know they're not talking behind youir back? Second, if she is willing, set him up and have her call him and say something like " I really like you and I know your going out with (your name), but do you think me and you could go out sometime?" See what he says....
2006-07-23 16:18:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always follow your intuition. It's 99% accurate.
2006-07-23 16:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way Sweetie... if he didnt want you, he wouldnt be with you. Men are easy with calling it quits so its not that he is with you just because. He is with you for a reason.... he likes you and cares about you. If he wanted to be with her... he wouldnt be with you.
2006-07-23 16:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by ncbutterfly_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN START BY ASKING HIM!
IF THAT ANSWER SEEMS UNTRUE THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO DISCUSS THIS WITH YOUR FRIEND AND GET HER TO STAY AWAY FOR AWHILE AND SEE WHERE THINGS GO THEN WITH YOUR BF.
AS THEY SAY"OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND"
2006-07-23 16:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by wrestlersmama1967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite both of them and tell them u will be back in a hour, than hide somewhere and see what happens.
2006-07-23 16:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by john_0502000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3way call ask a guy friend to call him and ask while your on the other line listening
2006-07-23 16:17:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋