Yesterday my fiance' and the father of my son had to work in a place that doesnt get very good signal with his cell. I talked to him a few times and he was busy working. Then around 3:30 he called me and said " I have some bad news, i have to take a truck to Raleigh " which is about 5 hours away. We got off the phone about 5 min later and then i tried to call him about 20 min later and his celljust rang,soi tried a few more time and still no answer. Then i call again and his cell is off. I called him this morning and he said that he didnt get back until 4 this morning, he slept in the tractor trailer for a few hours and came back. I asked him about his cell and he said that it went dead. And that when his cell is out of signal it sucks the juice fast. Which IS true... but is he true?? I have never had any problems of worrying about him before... except one time and these past couple of days he has been angry with me and accusing me everysecond of cheating on him. What do you think??
2006-07-23 09:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No i didnt give him a reason to not trust me.. he is very insecure... I HOPE thats why he accuses me.. not a guilty concious
2006-07-23 09:15:01 · update #1
Usually if they are accusing you of cheating... they are cheating themselves... but this is a very complicated situation and shouldn't just be answered on Yahoo answers.
If you want to know the truth you must talk to him and reassure him that you just want to know the truth. You honestly don't want to be in an unfaithful relationship and I'm pretty sure that he doesn't want to be in one either. If he assures you that he's not cheating, then forget about it until you suspect it again. Give him 3 strikes. If you have 3 times when you feel extremely uneasy about what is going on... it's time to leave.
2006-07-23 09:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's a truck driver most of them have relationship issues due to being on the road so much (I'm a dispatcher at a trucking co. and hear it ALL the time). Also cell phones are not your most reliable source of communication. The best way is to sit down with him when he gets home and have a face to face. Come right out and ASK him what the deal is. If he is any kind of man he'll tell you. If he is not then you'll know just by his reaction and his choice of words. Most people have trouble lying to you right in your face!!
2006-07-23 09:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both have some major trust issues. Do you always talk to him several times a day when he's at work? If I talked on the phone that much at work I'd get in trouble. Is it really necessary? If you guys distrust each other that much than you don't belong together.
2006-07-23 09:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if a man continues to accuse you, it is because he is the one that is cheating. It's up to you to trust him or not!
2006-07-23 09:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your relationship is in trouble. Trust trouble. You better solve this one fast.
2006-07-23 09:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both have issues.
2006-07-23 09:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you gave him a reason not to trust you...
2006-07-23 09:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by Bridgets Blind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y he is accusing you of cheating on him??did you?
2006-07-23 09:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by kuhan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋