When she doesn't have my meals ready when I come in, she sits around all day doing nothing, my 7 children look like tramps, she should look after them if she doesn't work.
I've been thinking about beating her, what do you others think? Should I do it?
2006-07-23 08:50:04 · 36 answers · asked by davidhabidash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO NO and NO I hope you are kidding.
2006-07-23 08:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the reason she sits around all the time and doesn't do anything is because she is so worried about her asshole husband coming home that it completely immobilizes her.
There is never....ever...any reason to beat any other person.
Why did you marry this woman. If it's a servant you want you could have had that without the arguing.
If you lived in the United States what you talk about would be called wife abuse. Grounds for divorce. I would can it self protection. Even if you have never laid a hand on her based upon what you ask she needs help to get away from you as soon as possible.
2006-07-23 09:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do, you are out of your mind. Find out why she sits around and doesn't take care of the kids. Is she depressed? Why have you got so many kids to begin with? Do you help her with them? Do you give her emotional support? She may be overwhelmed. If you resort to such an action, then you will be making a serious and criminal mistake. Your children will suffer, your wife will suffer, and believe it or not, so will you. It is the sign of an insecure individual if you give in to this instinct. You are a human being and should be able to talk through the situation with your wife. If you need help, get some. Try to feel empathy for her. She may be very unhappy. Did she have a choice in having all those kids? She isn't a servant, for heaven's sake, she is your wife. If you value your marriage, you'll try to make it better. Beating her will be the first step on the way to its destruction, dude!!
2006-07-23 09:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope this question is a joke. No you should never beat her. No women deserves a beating from her man no matter what she has done. Why dont you stay at home for the day and see if you can have everything done for when she gets home. Being a mum is a 24 hour job and the hardest job! I have 2 children and i dont get everything done for when my husband comes home. He walks through the door helps me with the housework and then helps me cook dinner and then we bath the kids and put them to bed together and then we sit down and talk. she is proberbley having a really hard time at the moment. If you dont like it then leave
2006-07-23 09:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by noone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not acceptable under any circumstance! If you are seriously having these feelings, backup and consider the results of such an act. Ask yourself, " How would I feel about a man beating my daughter or mother?" Seek all other options first and if you still are having these thoughts, LEAVE! Try talking to your wife about the feelings you are having. I do give you credit for seeking others opinions, but sometimes a professional would be the best option. I wish you luck in resolving this issue.
2006-07-23 12:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thoroughly enjoyed reading all the answers to your question! LOL Anyway, my answer is this: the Bible says that when two people get married they are to become like one, and you should regard your spouse as yourself. Maybe you need or desire a beating?! You're an idiot. No woman with 7 kids could possibly "sit around all day doing nothing." Furthermore, how would you know what she does all day?
2006-07-23 09:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called assault and battery. Don't you dare put your hands on that woman. Did it occur to you that maybe she is depressed? Having a child is a very difficult thing, let alone 7. You need to talk to her and find out what's happening to her. Love and kindness will get you a lot further than yelling, screaming and beating anyone. Take a good look at her, look into her eyes, tell her you love her and talk about what's going on. It's easy for a woman to lose herself, especially when she has such a large family. Find others ways of getting to her, please. Besides, you don't want your children to grow up thinking that in order to get things their way, you have to beat someone down.
2006-07-23 08:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fella, I dont care what your wife don or has don or evan the way she does, It takes a sorry, lowdown, not even a half man to hit a woman. Men like you think you are GODS gift to woman. But the reason men beatup on their wives is that they never had their *** beat by a man. Your a coward and a sorry example of a man , you make all men look like wife beaters. I wish that i could get my hands on you.I'll show you we do to wife beaters...
2006-07-23 09:17:11 · answer #8 · answered by mswildman2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for beating your wife what do you think that is going to do? You need to tell her she needs to step up and take care of her children and if your that unhappy maybe you should leave and take the kids but it is never alright to hit someone.
2006-07-23 08:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by weeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you are kidding and just being obnoxious. The answer is obviously NO. She sounds like she could be depressed. Maybe you should get some marital help (like counseling). Maybe she needs some friends and a sense of value and purpose. It has to be a bummer for her to be married to a jerk.
2006-07-23 09:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that she should wait till your asleep and pull a Elaina Bobbitt on you or tie you up and light the bed on fire , shes not a punching bag dork shes a woman and any man that hits a woman is just a insecure a$$.
2006-07-23 08:58:04 · answer #11 · answered by punkinhead0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋