If my parents find out they will send me away.I found a Abortion clinic that will take me without my parents consent.
I am soo scared ,My Grandmother died giving birth to my mother,my mother almost died giving birtH to me,she had 147 blood tran fusions,she hemridged almost to death my doctor told me it's very dangerous for me to have children.
I have two things aganst me,my parents and risk to my life.
WHAT SHOULD I DO??????.........HELP ANY ADVICE TOMORROW IS MY APPOINTMENT FOR MY ABORTION...should i go ?
I will never make this stupid mistake ever again!!
2006-07-23 08:39:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
abort it.
2006-07-23 08:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by ast5792 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Now is the time for you to get right with your parents and quit playing adult at 13 years of age. It does not take a lot of brains to open your legs and get impregnated but it takes a lot of brains to care for a baby when you are still a baby yourself. You better get your parents involved like yesterday if there is any hope for you. if you found a clinic to give you an abortion at 13 without parental consent then they use coat hangers not proper medical procedures and you may be ruined for life afterwords.
I don't pass judgment on birthing babies or not but common sense will tell you to stop lying and start telling the truth.
OH BY THE WAY!! You seem to have a problem remembering the lies you told earlier because before you gave a date of birth that would make you 20 something and now you have cancer and are pregnant at 13. Make up your mind Which lie you are going to use OK?
2006-07-23 08:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a tough spot right now. Even though I desperately want to have a baby and can't get pregnant I would support whatever decision you make. I will say that having an abortion is risky but at your age bringing a pregnancy to term may be riskier. There are a lot of organizations who can assist you no matter what path you choose. You are so young to have to make this choice by yourself, please tell either your parents or some older relative or friend that you can trust so that they can provide you with the support that you need through this difficult period. I am sorry that you have to go through this. Good Luck and I will pray for you tonight.
2006-07-23 08:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Susan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you really are 13. But I doubt it! Come on ... 147 blood transfusions? Let's get real. I looked at your other "questions" and they're all pretty stupid. If you are really 3 1/2 months pregnant it's already too late for an abortion. I doubt you are pregnant. I think you just want some attention and have found a way to get it. I feel very sorry for you and any children you might have one day.
2006-07-23 08:51:17 · answer #4 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bad situation.. but considering your age.. and you inherited condition... i would go ahead with the abortion.
the baby would have a half life if you continued... with the chance of you not being there.. it would also have a half life if you lived... u would have little family support.. no income... all that would be is adoption.. but because you are so young it is dangerous to have a child... you are safest to go ahead with your apointment... you should not feel bad.. you are just helping to speed up the life process.. and because the unborn baby had no chance to be tested in life... it will be born again so it can.. that is if you believe in the testing thing of life!
you need to do this for both yours and the unborn spirit.. so it can have another chance... i dont think you would ever make the mistake again!! good luck.. try not to be scared.. perhaps take a close friend.... good luck... xxx
2006-07-23 08:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, seriously, what is wrong with you?
You were 26, now you're 13 and pregnant, with cancer?
There are people in the world who have to face these truths everyday, instead of making up terrible stories(which I would suggest you stop, you should never tempt fate), why don't you go the hospital and take a good look at the babies and children who are sick and dying from cancer?
They,along with their parents, wish they could just make it up too.
Get some help.
2006-07-23 08:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a child so bad and am having a hard time having one at 28. You are going to murder, kill, that's what abort means, and next year ,you'll be pregnant again. What are you going to do, keep having abortions? By the time you want to have a child with your husband, you won't be able to. They suck out the contents of your uterus(baby) It is murder regardless. and where the heck did you get money to have an abortion, that is about $300. that's what i am curious about.If you're going to continue having sex you will end up pregnant again, and you can't keep having abortions. You need to change your habits. sex at 13, I can't imagine doing that so young, I had my first kiss at 13, certainly i wasnt ready for sex, if you werent ready for the consequences you should've kept your legs closed. Think about that.
2006-07-23 08:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, in another post you said your birth year was 1979, that would make you like 27 now. Big difference. Have an abortion and get rid of that vicious dog before it does some real damage. Oh yeah, and grow up and stop trying to garner sympathy votes.
2006-07-24 15:15:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two choices now hon:
Tell your parents and endure what they'll do/say.
or
Inform the clinic that you have hemophelia (or whatever condition that caused the trouble with your grandmother) and take the risk.
Speak to as many doctors as you can.
Im sorry.... but this awful choice must be made.
Best of luck hon... and ever good wish.
2006-07-23 08:45:28 · answer #9 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no , i don't think you should get an abortion, i'm a mother of 2 and if it were my daughter, i would help her. yeah, i would be
dissapointed at first, but i'd get over it and just deal with it. you may have had family history of problems, but time's are
different now, medical technology(spelling??) is alot better than ever now. don't forget, that's your mom's grandchild also. abortion is for ignorant people, its the easy way out. it also kills!!
2006-07-23 09:00:39 · answer #10 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW sweetie I hope and know you learned what an adult decision you made to have unprotected sex. I personally would be scared but still talk to my parents. If it's that big of an health risk and you know of it I think you should talk to your docs about what the full scope is!. You should talk to your parents because you would hate to have complications and they see you in the er and then finds out. That would hurt them more.
2006-07-23 08:49:12 · answer #11 · answered by Kay O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋