i love this guy and i thought he loved me but lately hes been a total *** to me and all my friends are telling me to forget him but i cant...what can i do to get over this asshole?
2006-07-23 08:35:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
confront him about it. ask him what's up. if he really was that *** that your friends said he was then you should be satisfied. find someone else to give your heart to.
2006-07-23 08:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by keet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him, (though I doubt you do, since you called him an asshole), have a talk with him and ask him if he is ok and if not then ask him to tell you what is wrong. Has he ever said "I love you"?. If he never has then he probably doesn't love you. My man and I have gone through a lot of fights in the last 2.5 years, but we never fail to say those 3 words to each other. We understand each other. You need to be with someone who understand you and is willing to communicate. Communication is very important in a relationship. If you don't wanna lose him that is what you need to do. If you just wanna get over him, go out with friends and have fun. Don't sit at home thinking about this guy cause it's not worth it. Also, don't talk about him to your friends. So the less you mention him, the more he will become a distant memory and you will get over him. Trust me I have done that before and I no longer think of that someone who did me wrong. Good luck!
2006-07-23 08:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister has been stuck on an asshole for 3 years. The best thing for you? Get away from him, don't call him, lock away his pictures, and stop talking about him. Have a cup and everytime you speak his name or think about him put a quarter in it. Before you know it he will be off your mind and you will have enough money to buy yourself something nice.
2006-07-23 08:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Blanquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. Thats what i did. But that person that you care about will always be in the back of your mind. My first real love never has left my brain but i have to move on because being with him i will never be happy. Find someone else or date other people or do something for yourself that is fun. It might get your mind off of things. Good Luck.
2006-07-23 08:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by lovemeacb4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen up girls stop carrying your hearts in your sleeves start datign an that means no sex find out who each of you are if he is a asshole now it only gets worse do you not think you are worth someone who treats you as a lady an respect how you feel an is compassionate ?
2006-07-23 08:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by serenity0795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no true way to get over a guy but spending time with your friends or doing things you like will help get your mind off of him and then you can focus on finding yourself a better relationship trust me it always works out for the best
2006-07-23 08:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by superdc692004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find Mr. Right elsewhere.
If you are already thinking that the the guy is an A--hole now, frankly why are you even thinking about giving him another chance? Where is your logic here? Do you like punishing yourself that much?
Move on already, hey!
2006-07-23 08:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think first u should talk to him about it, maybe he hasn't noticed, or maybe something has changed him,or bothering him....don't run into conclusion, talk to him.....and then according to his answer u'll no what to do!
If it turns out that eh doesn't love u, u'll forget him in time, time heals everything....just lessen the contact u have with each other!
2006-07-23 08:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by David 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fastest way to forget a guy is to find another guy. Of course, that isn't the BEST solution to your problem. Leave this guy. Find yourself. then find someone who is not a jerk to you.
2006-07-23 08:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is treating you bad you need to find some one that will treat you like you are every thing to them and if they lost you they would not know what to do . And if you are interested in talking to me my yahoo messenger is samuelthomashoover
2006-07-23 08:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Skemenim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why can you forget him? if he has a bigger dick than all your x? he bangs so good that you want more or he has ton of money that you want to get some of its,if none of above, you be better off dump him and move on?
2006-07-23 08:44:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋