Why/ Why not?
2006-07-23 08:35:22 · 13 answers · asked by rottenkid4560 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sex is not the most important thing. Love and caring are. Sex can be improved upon. By telling what you want and like.
2006-07-23 08:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, why is the sex not good, is there a reason that can be fixed.
Second, have you ever sat down with your partner and talked about what pleases you.Third, make the sex romantic, instead of just sex.
2006-07-23 15:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a singles group many years ago. we had a secret ballot with many things on the list. we had to put them in order of what we thought was the most to lest important in a relationship. there was 20 to 25 questions. #1 was trust and way down on or near the bottom was money and sex. our ages at that time were 23 to 62. hope this will be of some help. by the way i agreed with the list we came up with.
2006-07-23 15:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by chapes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your relationship based on sex? If so, I would re-examine your relationship and past relationships.
Here's a question: your partner was in a terrible accident and will be parapalegic for the rest of his/her life. Would you still stay with him/her even if she/he would be a veggie for the rest of his/her life?
A relationship shouldn't be based on sex. If the sex isn't satisfactory, communicate your needs and requests. Don't expect your partner to read your mind; be straight forward.
"I want you to touch me here"
"I want you to...."
In the same sense, be encouraging. And you need to work on it too.
2006-07-23 15:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with my partner because sex is not everything. If you care about them and they care about you then you should stay and don't let them go.
2006-07-23 15:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Island Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the person than that makes the sex good. There is more to it than just being physical.
2006-07-23 15:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by helpme1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and i will try to get them some ways to improve the sex thing.
2006-07-23 15:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends...if sex is no good why not try and talk it out with them..maybe you both need to help each other understand what turns each other on..try different things like whipped cream..you see?
2006-07-23 15:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by coolbeansnyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. If you love them desperately, then leaving them because sex isn't good isn't a good reason and they won't go for it.
2006-07-23 15:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can get better over time. You need to learn to tell him what you like. Talk to him.
2006-07-23 15:37:12 · answer #10 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋