So this guy who had feelings toward me hadn't contact me since school let out, and so I gave up on him after he didn't reply my message. Yesturday night I went to a party and he was there. He said hey to me and we talked a little bit; he asked if I was ok whenever I tripped over the hammock and didn't throw me out of the hammock like he did to my friends. But then again, he spent lots of time talking to one of my friends.(one of the ones he threw out of the hammock) But before I left he gave me a hug (I didn't ask for one...he just sat up a bit on the hammock like he was expecting me to come there and hug him so I did hug him). I'm totally confused and have no idea if he still has feelings toward me or not...I'm not even sure if he knows if he does or not!. Should I call him and talk to him and see if he does? What should I do? I'm so confused!!! (I would love it if a guy answered so maybe I could understand his perspective but I'm open for girl's answers, too...any help is appreciated
2006-07-23 08:31:33 · 7 answers · asked by Oink 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd call him and strike up a conversation. Don't just jump right on the subject. Gradually ask him if he'd like to hang out some time and then when you do hang out, ask him how he feels about you so once he tells you, you will know exactly what to do. Don't sweat the small stuff. If he isn't the one, there will be others. Good luck!
2006-07-23 08:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from a gurl point of view i went through the same thing but I found out he do like me but i wasn't the one 4 him so I think you should call him and find out the truth cuz i did and i found out the exact truth!
2006-07-23 15:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by track_star_1912 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew! Me too. He could be as confused as you. The mating dance is complicated and sometimes the music sucks. He could be just trying to be 'cool', he might be playing you, or he might not know his butt from a biscuit. Compare notes with your tight girlfriends, ones you trust not to put your business on the street. OR, you might just flat-out ask him. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2006-07-23 15:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Dutch58 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make too much out of what happened. I think he was just being nice. I would not call him, let him make the first move. You don't want to appear desperate. Go on with your life and see what happens.
2006-07-23 15:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belong to a group that we all hug each other it is nothign more than a hey good to see you im glad your here maybe you shoudl just ask him if he wants to date.
2006-07-23 15:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by serenity0795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST ASK HIM
Yeesh, why do people make things so much more difficult than they have to be?
2006-07-23 16:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him
2006-07-23 15:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋