2006-07-23 08:07:52 · 12 answers · asked by Christiana 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I outlived two of my children. That was hard. Separation and divorce in an abusive situation turns out to be harder. Ask for help. Recognize that some people want to sincerely help if you let them, and some people want to feed on your misery. Learn to recognize the difference. Believe in the Common Good.
2006-07-23 08:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Molly R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hardest time of my life is when I found out my daughter was going to die, and her death. I went through a year of serious depression. I was even put in a mental hospital twice.
I would still be living in that state or would have killed my self if it was not for God.
I accepted Jesus as my personal Lord and Savior and my life has never been the same.
Yes I still have hard times and even suffer from depression. I have had a really bad year so far started with losing the job I got after college in January and still has not gotten better. But now I know I am loved God loves me and I am never alone. He will never leave me nor forsake me. So even though I have gone through tough times and am still going through them and will have more in my future. I get through it by leaning on His everlasting arms. Praise the Lord. He is my strength and my light.
2006-07-24 18:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by AlwaysRight 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Compared to some stories (and because it's safe to say that I'm very young), the hardest time of my life, thus far, was when my first love broke up with me. We dated for two years and then it ended. I haven't the slightest idea how I got through it. I tried to take it a day at a time. I felt sorry for myself more than I should have. I think writing my feelings out helped me out extremely.
2006-07-23 11:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The hardest time of my life so far was when i found out that my aunt(who was like my second mom) got cancer. It was terrible to see her hurting and even tho i tried my best to help sometimes it was useless because it's a horrible illness that unfortunately doesnt have cure yet. I got through it by being strong and never giving up i also helped my aunt why anything i could and most importantly i helped her emtionally by telling her that everything was going to be okay in time. and sure enough it was. She is now stable and i hope that continues.
2006-07-23 08:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by _ooopsie daisy_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT HAPPENED TO ME ABOUT 6 YEARS AGO...I THOUGHT I WAS GOING IN THE HOSPITAL THAT MORNING FOR SOME MINOR SURGERY THAT WOULD TAKE ABOUT 45 MINUTES AND THAT I WOULD BE ABLE TO GO HOME THE NEXT DAY....BUT IT DIDN'T TURN OUT THAT WAY....I LOST A WHOLE YR OF MY LIFE...I CRASHED AFTER THREE DAYS AND WENT ON LIFE SUPPORT FOR 11 MOS.....HAD ALOT OF MAJOR PROBLEMS DURING THAT TIME THAT I DON'T KNOW EXCEPT FOR I WAS TOLD...AND TO THIS DAY I STILL HAVE PROBLEMS WITH MY STOMACH...I HAD PLASTIC SURGERY TO MAKE THE UGLY SCAR GO AWAY AND THAT GUY ONLY MAD IT LOOK WORST...SO FOR A WHILE THAT REALLY BOTHER ME BUT RECENTLY I READ THE STORY FROM LIVINGONTHINICE... (THE GUY WITH THE CANCER JUST WAITING TO DIE?) AND A FEW STORIES LIKE THAT BEFORE THIS AND I DECIDED THAT I'M NOT SO BAD OFF..I WAKE UP EVERY MORNING AND CHERISH THE DAY AS IF IT WERE GOING TO BE THE LAST ONE FOR ME, CUZ IT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT GOD DIDN'T WANT ME TO COME HOME YET..............THERE ARE ALOT MORE THAT HAVE IT WORST...THIS ISN'T THE ONLY TIME THAT I HAVE BEEN DOWN BUT IT IS THE MOST RECENT ONE.....
2006-07-23 08:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by whitewolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the hardest time of my life was 10th grade til about a year ago (about 4 years total). I got thru it with the help of 1 friend and no support from a lot of others, including my family (they were the origin of the hardships i went thru). if i didn't worry about other people's problems so much, i would have been happier. my parents are very unhappy, but still together. they took a lot of anger out on me. it made me a stronger person and i don't necessarily regret it. i tried to stay positive and remember that things would be different and once i got out on my own, infinitely better. i kept my eyes on the future, and on my goals. if i could change anything, i'd be more involved in activities with others that got me out of the house more. but really, all in all, i got myself thru it. there were outside factors, but you make the choices. you can change some things.
2006-07-23 08:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by the_devil_hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It started December 16, 2005, at about 3:00 a.m., when My Steve shot himself through the head. I got through it mostly because of some very dear friends. My old boss and his wife invited me to stay at their place that first night, and helped in a variety of ways. My neighbor upstairs, my surrogate daughter Lexi, stayed with me a good bit and shared what she remembered of Steve and didn't let me be alone and brooding. My friend Alicia came over and made like the white tornado, getting the apartment decent to receive guests after the memorial service. Steve's mom and sister came out from back east and helped me, including but not limited to covering most of the expenses.
Also, once I got onto the computer (I inherited from Steve, but which had to be reprogrammed), and onto Yahoo! Answers and 360, I started making Internet friends who have become very dear to me.
I get by with a little help from my friends.
2006-07-23 08:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Too many to mention. The bright side is the day that is usually the worse of the year or me, Valentine's Day, appeared to be the day things turned around in my life. I still have disappointments but I handle them better than before. Had one yesterday but what can you do? Just keep moving I guess.
2016-03-16 04:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will be quite the experience since I hate talking about this, but here goes. I was sent away to this place called Sky Ranch for Boys when I was 15 y/o, because I had taken at various times I believe three different ones 1 time apiece, and her ATM card like 4 times for $20 each time, oh and by the way I got $100 on each credit card. My mom turned me in had me prosecuted, and I was put on probation with restitution of $180. I got worse with my behavior, and she talked to my PO about sending me to Sky Ranch, he didn't want to but she pressed him and it happened.
When I first got there I was terrified, after a tear filled goodbye (on my part, not because I was going to miss her because she had done this to me). Don't get me wrong I know I did something wrong but she spent more money to do all of this than saying you owe me $180, it was about teaching me a lesson and I didn't really learn my lesson even after I got out. Things were okay for the first few weeks I would say, but then one day I was called to the head guys office so he could explain a few things to me. Mainly that my mom wasn't having to pay for me to be there and that I was on some kind of scholarship paid for by a guy that owned a bar in the town I was from. Then the $h!t hit the fan, when I got back to my dorm my roommates were like why did you go to the office were you snitching, I told them no I was just being told that I was on a shcolarship. Well they didn't believe me or didn't care and decided to take advantage of a scared 15 y/o who had never been away from home for more than 2 weeks. They then told me I had to start fighting them before I could go to sleep. I was like screw that, but two on one isn't the fairest thing to happen. I got beat up like this for about a month and a half and then I decided to tell someone, only to find out that the roommates of mine were high ranks and they wouldn't do something like that. I put up with that for another 2 months then they both were discharged, but the lasting affects and the fact that these guys told everyone to mess with me just made things almost as bad as the beatings. I never got over what happened to me there and have told my mom that I will never forgive her for what she did to me but like everyone else she doesn' care. That was the hardest time of my life 13 months worth, but I know that I am a stronger person, not just physically but mentally too.
2006-07-23 08:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by tre_loc_dogg2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex
I got through it lying in bed for days at a time.
2006-07-24 10:18:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋