last night i hav sex with my wife after my overseas assignment (6mths) and this first time after return back from china
but she seem likes has lost insterest to have sex with me
2006-07-23 07:54:09 · 16 answers · asked by kevin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this sounds serious. you'd better try to discuss this with her openly. make sure there is no special physical condition that prevents her from enjoying sex (sickness or anything of the like). and see if she is happy with all the aspects of your marriage.
women can't enjoy sex as long as there is something serious on their mind. please be very patient and try to talk to her to see what is wrong. it might take a while, but the effort will be worth.
also, do not neglect the possibility that she might feel alienated from you after such a long absence. give her some time and space to get used to you again.
but, most importantly, talk things out. talk, talk, talk. there's nothing a woman won't tell you if you just know how to ask. again, time and patience are key factors. make sure you use them wisely.
good luck with everything. :)
2006-07-23 08:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by by_request2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be she found a better fireman whose hose did more for her than you are doing. Lack of interest after so long without you is a sure sign she has been giving samples. Tackle her on it and ask what is going on. You are entitled to the truth.
2006-07-23 08:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by hardnose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she feel like having sex first and do a little foreplay.But if you been away from her she should have been in the bed before you said anything and should have been ready for you.
2006-07-23 08:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, figure her out, do not rush her, take your time, let her fall in love with you again, just remember,we men look at sex differently than a women does. we put to much into the phycial.patience is the key, its not about you, its about both of you. example what does she like;mine of all things is to go buy groceries and buy what ever she wants(because shes been hungry before)and i expect no reward but it sure is nice.patience my friend is the key!!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 08:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by m.w.meredith@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try taking things just a little slower!!! Six months is a long time, you may just need to get to know each other a little bit again.
2006-07-23 07:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's exercises you can do. I, myself have read up on them and can really help you grow if that's what you're wanting to do . One of the trainers I used to know introduced used to talk about it and I told him to shut up of course. "quit talking about your penis" but he'd be the guy to ask.
2016-03-27 04:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She found a play boy and she is happy with that
2006-07-23 21:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by sasco1992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she has lost interest and why? She may be involved with someone else.
2006-07-23 07:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious, she has been banging someone else while you were away. Check your phone bill and you will soon discover.
2006-07-23 08:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by daveinsurprise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but its probably not because you arent' making her happy..i mean youve been gone for a while...she's probably seeing someone else...just go ahead and move on and get divorced. im sure you'll be able to please someone else
2006-07-23 07:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋