i been with my boyfriend for six yrs every time when i ask him to marry me he say wait with out giving me any reason. i love him so much how can i do
2006-07-23 07:42:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he doesn't want to merry yet.
2006-07-23 07:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by nona b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been with him for six years and he still wants to wait tell him to wait alone. Honey, he is not going to marry you. He is waiting for someone else to come along. Dump him now! I know you think you love him but you will find someone else who appreciates you. This one is just using you and when you are used up he will dump you. He will NOT be there for you when you need him. Let him go. This is a one sided relationship and can not be satisfying for you. I has to be embarrassing. Move on.
2006-07-23 07:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Karen E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is not the 'marrying' type. Or perhaps he is just not ready. But you would think after six years he would know what he wants.
Without him giving you reasons, you can only make presumptions. I would probably cut my losses now, and move forward. When he is ready, tell him to come and find you -- that is if you aren't with someone else.
2006-07-23 07:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Six years is a long time not to make any kind of commitment. If you want to get married, and he doesn't, it's time to move on.
2006-07-23 07:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because he knows for a man marriage has no benefit, all of the legal benefits of a marriage weigh against him and for the woman.
Most men are quite aware of this, Offer him a pre nup then ask him. Also write your congress person and ask them to review America's Family law.
Good Luck!
2006-07-23 09:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by macdyver60 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He loves you for sure....a man with the same gal for SIX long years!!!......he might be having some genuine problems.....how much he earns??.....wait for marriage ... you cant help it.....he loves you thats 100% true but......marriages are made in heaven!
2006-07-23 07:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first ask him again and when he tries to make up a reson say why do you always make up a reson if you want to wait that's good just say that instead of trying to make up stuff or say give me a good reason why you don't want to marry me simple as that
2006-07-23 07:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by diamond s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's not in love with you. He just feels comfortable around you. When someone is in love with someone else they want to spend the rest of their life with that person. However, sometimes people are just comfortable around certain people or like them sexually, so they will hang around, but wouldn't want to marry that person.
2006-07-23 07:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a one sided relationship, maybe try ignoring him see if he responds at all
2006-07-23 07:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loose him, he's not commented
2006-07-23 07:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋