Just broke up with my girl friend in the past couple days, we been together for 1yr and like 6 months. the thing is she moved to tennessee from Pennsylvania, well... i had this myspace account and she found out bout it, she thought that i was cheatin on her,( but the truth is i never cheated), so she cheated on me wit some guy she know when she live in TN before, i want down there for a few weeks, all she wanted to do was talk to me, about what shes gonna do because she never finished school, she thought i wasn't listen but i was, so she said something i didnt like than i flipped out and started callin her all types of names told i didnt care bout her nop more(which was a lie) all she wanted was somebody that she can talk to.
me and her been throught so much in just a year, we almost had a baby, all the sacrificies she gave up to be with me, she left her family to be with, lived with like 5 different people just to be around me. wat do i do? i luv her with all ma heart.
2006-07-23 07:41:48 · 13 answers · asked by yungruc17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You and her need to have a serious discussion about your feelings for each other and where the relationship is going. How old are you both? If you can work out your differences and be happy now then that is great. If not...maybe you two just need some time apart...not neccisarrily to be with other people but just to get your minds straight. If you love her and she loves you, you will find a way to make it work.
Is she living in TN now?? And your in PA?? Maybe if it is possible for you...you could relocate there to show her how much you care. Get a good job so you can support youself and encourage her to do the same. That way the both of you can afford your own place together (or apart) and there will be less sacrificies to be made to be together.
Good Luck
2006-07-23 07:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by scarletbegonias9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are wrong for one....calling her out of her name. No matter how mad a man may get, you never disrespect your lady by calling her out of her name, no matter what she did. Second, I think you wrong for having that MySpace account. I don't understand people who are in relationships and spend time on the internet talking to people you don't know, getting to know them. What's the deal with that? If you in a relationship and really love that person and serious about them, I don't think you should be on some kind of chatline. That's all MySpace is, a chat line, for single people. But besides you being wrong for that, I think you should just really do what your heart says. I would tell you to leave her, since she cheated, but I can't. I think that's what you should do though. If someone has the heart to cheat on you, they really don't love you and they will do it again. I mean, like my girl say all the time, "Why would I mess up a lifetime, for one night?" That's what that lady did to you. I think you should just move on and find something better, someone who won't cheat, trust you and loves you the right way.
2006-07-23 07:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by L.E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are going through such a heartbreaking moment but do u really want to be with someone that slept with another man just to upset you??? First of all how does someone become a cheater just for being in MySpace?? If you guys have been together for such a long time and you each went through difficult situations in order to be together then why was it so easy for her to just jump to the conclusion that you were cheating and how instead of confronting you about it and discussing the situation she goes out and has sex with someone else?? --- It's ultimately up to you if u find it in your heart to forgive her and be able to re-start a relationship with her... obviously the trust, respect and communication needs to be improved between both of you... Good Luck with whatever u decide.
2006-07-23 08:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her, you two need to sit down and talk like mature adults. What were you doing on myspace that made her think that you were cheating? She should not have slept with someone else though. You need to make up your mind on if you can forgive her for cheating on you. Work through it together and start your life together. Always remember to communicate.
2006-07-23 07:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by mistymeadoww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer to you my friend is you have to think about yourself first. If you don't have your self together then you can't help anyone else. Remember your number one in this life, everything else comes after. I think you might be a little to young to know what real love is. Alot of the time it is a comfort zone that we get ourselves in and no matter what goes on in a relationship we just want to keep the same person around. You have to be happy and if your not you need to change your situation. NO ONE ELSE!!
2006-07-23 07:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by for_buterfli@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm afraid this is a case of wanting what you won't be able to have, you by no ability be responsive to what you have or had till you lose it. Very sorry to assert - yet you of course are responsive to it - this is now too previous due for you with your first ex, and much as you're aching to speak, you need to no longer. this is the previous. yet now it seems plenty extra alluring than the present. with or with out that first ex, the present undertaking is undesirable. you are able to desire to get out of it. What you're yearning isn't unavoidably your first ex yet somebody sympathetic. stressful as this is, attempt to cut up the two on your strategies: Get out of your recent relationship. you need to nevertheless sense low and regretful over the different one getting married, yet this is a distinctive count.
2016-10-08 05:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Myspace can only lead to trouble.
2006-07-23 07:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting a little older is the only thing that will help either of you.
2006-07-23 07:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by 3DDD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need to grow up.
2006-07-23 07:45:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is a deal breaker! I say move on!
2006-07-23 07:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋