oh my lord is life really this hard for a young man/woman?

Question

does life get better? i try to ask questions but cant get answers. is it really what we make of it ? or are we just just dealt our hand and made to make the best out of it? not suicidal just curious .

Answer 1

Actually i believe it's a little of both. Sure we have been dealt our cards, but it's up to us how we play them.

Answer 2

oh Lord. Yes life seems to be impossible at a young woman /man "birds eye view. Everyone goes through it and always will, but now to really give this question the answer that it deserves. Ergo!

You might still be just young enough not to understand this but, any question that you have, you can go inside yourself, and that is what you are suppose to do anyway. (Think not? Try it and then talk to me.) Ok, in there lies the right answer to everything that is relative to our past, current and future affairs. It takes a little focus though, and most of us are afaid to focus on ourselves that deep. We are constantly afraid of what we might find. And referring to your second question, Thoughts, yours, mine, anyone's, are the first step of creation. It is enlightenment, as well as rewarding, to pay more attention to our thoughts, hence, becoming more responsible in what we create. WE are compulsive thinkers, and it will take time to gain a little control, but there are very easy steps to take and I encourage you to try them all. Now, it only makes sense "to make the best out of it." no matter how "it" got there, right? Dont seek something to blame your life on, take the time to see if you can get at least one more way of looking at things and situations. More if you can. I'm glad that you are not suicidal, but I think that you could be if you dont get to know the "God in you" and in turn, becoming connected to it all. I'm excited that I got to be the one to tell you, now, you will not do yourself any good, nor will you feel any better, if you will not take it to heart that the more you put in to anything, the more that you will get out of it. Give as much as you can to this life, and you will get so much more from it. It's the law.

Answer 3

Life is what U make it.
Fate & Common Sense make better bed-fellows than.
High-octane living with a "Devil may care" attitude.
If U C what I mean.
Being sensible/relaible & using a lil fore-thought, goes a long, long way 2 helping people lead a comfortable/easy life.

But remember 2 let UR hair down every now & then, so U can live a little!

Answer 4

Row, row, row your boat gently down the stream. Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily... x

Here is your freedom to live and to transform. Keep asking questions, of yourself and of others. Good advice from Lisa. Hard work and focus key. Work out just what your principles are. Difficult because it is a fluid thing and the teenage/20s period involves playing with different ideas, possibilities, people. But having some principles and remaining true to them gives you some stability and a base for personal direction and growth where everything else changes.

And 'you should,' according to Bright Eyes, 'never be embarassed by your problems with living because it's the ones with the sorest throats who have done the most singing...'

May the good dreams of your younger years come true x

Answer 5

If you're asking questions and finding they ultimately lead to more questions, you're on your way to becoming a true Socratic philosopher! I think the importance of the hands we're dealt isn't so much about which cards we're holding, as making sure we're fully aware of the potential they give us, and resisting underestimating ourselves - and of course having fun pondering the imponderables in the process... As to life getting better - I think that comes when you figure out just what it is you're aching to achieve in the world, and set about achieving it!

Answer 6

Life is great when we are children as we dont know much about the world and its all about playing and giggles with friends then we turn into adults and learn about f***ed up politicians running the country, mad muslims bombing us in the name of allah, unpredictable cancer, heart disease and bodily function degeneration through ageing.

Life then turns from giggles and smiles to serious experiences like these.

Answer 7

DON'T EVER FEEL ALONE HERE ON EARTH...YOU NEED TO ASK MORE QUESTIONS...MAY BE YOU AREN'T ASKING THE RIGHT PEOPLE AND THAT IS WHY YOU'RE NOT GETTING THE ANSWERS YOU ARE LOOKING FOR...GO TO A PRIEST, PASTOR, COUNSELOR AT SCHOOL, OR EVEN YOUR PARENTS....WHEN YOU HAVE SOME OF THE ANSWERS AND STILL FIGURE OUT EVERYTHING START ASKING MORE QUESTIONS AGAIN...BY ASKING QUESTIONS IN THE WORLD IS THE ONLY WAY ONE IS GOING TO LEARN .........DON'T EVER STOP LEARNING................

Answer 8

omgsh, this is really awkaward. right before i found your question i was thinking the exact same thing. i just wonder why the hell are we even here. all we do is try to make ends meet and we never actually get anywhere. i am just as confused as you are and i wish i could help you out.

Answer 9

i imagine Sri Vidya Rajgopalan has given the staggering answer. besides the undeniable fact that the answer is extremely lengthy. enable me clarify you in short. Ram outfitted a Bridge rather of deliver because he theory, if contained in the conflict with Ravana extra military of Varana is needed then it is going to likely be ordinary to carry reinforcement by a Bridge Than to deliver deliver.

Answer 10

life is harder now more than ever !! i have 2 growns sons( late 20's) who think life like this is normal...........it breaks my heart to see them struggle...and sometimes i don't even want grandkids...when i was younger i had my own apartment and i lived very well on MINIMUM wage.....we can make the best of ourselves inspite of personal problems....but society , the economy.. and what we have done to our earth...outer things like that..we have little if no control over..so do the best you can..that's all anybody can do..