2006-07-23 07:08:46 · 18 answers · asked by Jay P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We have been together for a year in a half. I never put my hands on her before. I never even called her out of her name. She told me something that really hurted and with out thinking I reacted. She told me that I would never see my unborn baby.
2006-07-23 07:15:46 · update #1
I did not physically hit her. I pushed her. I would not even call it a push. I grab her and tried to sit her down.
2006-07-23 07:23:09 · update #2
I hope not.........for all of you! Perhaps you should seek some anger management, to understand the nature of your mistake.
2006-07-23 07:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you don't want your child raised in an environment with arguing and physical violence. You need to seek out help for yourself as an individual, to learn how to deal with conflict an emotions in productive ways. That is the only way for you to become the father you want to be (and probably the kind of father you wish you had).
You also need to sincerely apologize to your girlfriend for crossing the line and resorting to physical violence, and you can ask her to join you inn couples counseling so the two of you can learn to communicate more effectively and to help you establish a more secure foundation for your relationship.
Your child needs to be your top priority from this point forward -- regardless of your past, your age and whatever other issues you might have. The baby did not choose to be born or to have you as parents -- do what's right and give him or her what a baby really needs: a safe, loving family. Good luck!
2006-07-23 14:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps if you really convince and show her how sorry you are. I do not have enough info to answer this question at my best so jus e-mail me @ joyce_travieza@yahoo.com since I do not go back to the questions on Yahoo Answers that I already answered. It would help if you told me why u and yo baby mama got into an arguement.
God bless
~&~
Amor Siempre
Joyce
2006-07-23 14:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she were so stupid as to come back, why would you want her? If she is smart enough, why would she want you? You have no excuses for what you did...arguments or not...you get what you deserve. Remember the lesson well. Now, you will be paying for the upkeep of that child until the child is 18...called child support. Good luck
2006-07-23 14:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully not. There is never a reason to put your hands on someone else, especially a woman.
2006-07-23 14:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by fennamason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i honestly think that she will for the child. but never do it again if she does. if you love her, u need to know that she's always right. even if she's not really. and i am sure that if she had sex with you she planned to love you for a long time. p.s. itz not baby mother itz baby mama
2006-07-23 14:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by cutie34lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under no circumstance should youever put your hands on a women. Only when she's destroying your property or person can you only then protect yourself.
2006-07-23 14:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is smart she wouldn't. You are an idiot. What kind of man would put there hands on a woman. Arguement or not!!
2006-07-23 14:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mommy 2 Be♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have walked away.But you didnt so that means you need to do all the *** kissing in the world to get her backYou better pray she comes back and if she does you BETTER not do it again
2006-07-23 14:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by lovetimepeace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dought it if she comes back b cause 1nce a man put his hands on a woman there not gonna stop mayb shes scared ur gonna do it again
2006-07-23 16:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by naashomwheeler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋