First of all a 9 or 10 year old doesnt know what love is,except for a parent. And I would be devastated if my daughter was preganant at that age. But Im a good parent and my daughter wouldnt be left alone with a boy for that to happen and we have talks about what is appropriate and whats not.
2006-07-23 15:52:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Either I as a parent really messed up or was unaware and did not pay attention to my child. The child can not get pregnant at 9 or 10 unless they have started their womenly cycle and not many 9 and 10 yrs old do it comes around 12 or even 14. at the age of 9 or 10 a child does not really know what love is they think they do but as they mature they realize what love really is. For a 9 and 10 yr old to have a child would be devistating. I had my child at 19 and that being much older then 9 i still gave up alot of chidhood stuff. As a parent if my child was pregnant at 9 I think thats the time I would step in and take the custody of the baby and the my 9yr old would be on a strict to and from home basis, and in a private religious school.
2006-07-23 06:21:56
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answered by me 1
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I would think that I was not doing my job as a parent.At 9 and 10 children don't even understand the emotions of love other than for a parent or another relative.The only way they can get pregnant at that age is if the girl has a period or was in the process of getting a period for the first time.The question is what do you do different to keep this situation from happening again.
2006-07-23 06:25:24
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answered by Anonymous
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If the girl has had her first period at the age of nine or ten then yes she can get pregnant. But it's hard enough being an adult and having children. And I'd kill my kids...And you don't know what love is at that age. You haven't lived a life yet. Haven't been to middle, high school or college yet. DON'T DO IT!
2006-07-23 06:30:13
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answered by bugbabe45 1
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I believe the same holds true with boys. Don't think they can father children at that age. But it is a sad world when children at that age are involved with that form of behavior already. I have a 12 yr. boy and a 11 yr. girl. Neither are interested in that yet. Hopefully they will have enough dignity and respect for themselves not to feel that is something them need to do at this time of their lifes. I feel the grey hairs popping out as I speak of this. At 37, I don't want to be a grandpa yet. 45-50 will be better. That way they can make a life for themselves without adding that extra burden on.
2006-07-23 06:35:04
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answered by rmurf6987 4
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A nine or ten year old girl can't get pregnant if she has not had her first period. It seems pretty unlikely. By the looks of your typing and spelling skills, you're about that age. You should probably keep your junk in your pants. You're too young to do that crap...you're going to ruin your life and your parents are going to be embarassed that you're their kid. Nice going...
2006-07-23 06:17:41
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answered by stowchick01 3
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Wow if my daughter got pregnant at 9 or 10 even though I wouldn't do it personally I'd take her to have an abortion. Thats just to damn young to have a child. They haven't even hit their teens yet and their having a child. I couldn't raise a grandchild by my little girl at so young. Now maybe if she was 15 or 16 I would make her learn after her actions but 9 or 10 I couldn't do it.
2006-07-23 06:18:23
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answered by lillady 4
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Id check her birth certificate to make sure what age she was. If shes 10 then I dont see me worrying. As you cant pregnant pre-period. and eh if she gets pregnant after her period starts. then I'll probably sit down. have a talk with her. and ground her for 20 years
2006-07-23 08:07:21
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answered by helluvahangover 2
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I would be ashamed to call myself a parent. Who ignores their kids so much that 9-10 year olds are having sex?
2006-07-23 06:25:42
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answered by desiderio 5
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First off I would freak out and explain to her that she doesn't know what love is at 10 years old. Then I would cry because I failed as a mother.
2006-07-23 06:28:16
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answered by guineasomelove 5
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