2006-07-23 05:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If I love the woman, I will love her kids as well. Woman with kids are also human and have feelings too. My answer is a big YES
2006-07-23 06:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lost Sheep 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I personally don't want any woman with Kids. We can be friends, but not me that will be there to help you take care of some other Guy's kids.
2006-07-23 13:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy and the kids. If the kids are not well behaved, most guys run the other direction. They know the woman and the kids are a package deal and cant handle unruly kids.
2006-07-23 12:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that it depends on the guy, his past experiences, the woman herself, and the children.
As far as the man is concerned, I do have to admit that it is hard to take on another guys kids. I think we all know that we don't want to have the relationship that the person had before us pushed in our face. And with children around, not only is it a reminder, but a reminder that the relationship must have been so serious as to produce children.
And I think it's the same for a lot of women as well as men, taking on a partner where you're not just having the relationship with them, but their children too is hard. You have to try real hard to make a bond between children and yourself, especially if your bond to thier mother/father is only just growing.
That saying, it is not impossible. One example that I can think of is my female cousin. She got married about two years ago to a guy who was married before, and had a child with his ex-wife. But they are happy. The bond between her and the little boy took a while, and he was catious of her for a long time, but it worked out.
Perhaps, the other way round is more difficult because it tends to be women who look after their children full time.
So yes, some guys can have relationships with some women who have children, but both parties must make concessions. Life is never going to be the same as when you are young single and fancy free. Give as well as take I say. Don't expect him to come to your house at bedtime for the children so you can watch a movie but be interupted half way through (he'll probably find that a bit of a passion killer when he feel self consious about huggin you). Make sure you get babysitters so you can go and have a good date. But also realise that you will have to give up some time to spend with just him, he deserves it, and if he is worth keeping, then he will give up seeing soem of you so you can be with your kids.
Hope that helps, good luck
2006-07-23 13:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I dated amd married a woman with kids. It all turn out pretty well. Just stay away from a man who wants a woman BECAUSE she has kids!
2006-07-23 12:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by J P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how many and how well behaved, 2 is usually my limit, and they better be well behaved
2006-07-23 12:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some don't want that responsbility
2006-07-23 12:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by netta07may 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? I am ready
2006-07-23 12:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by anbukkarasan_c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋