this is about my ex let me tell you the story.
My ex and me went out for a couple weeks but I was soo in love with him. we talked for a long time b4 we got together. Then we break up cause he said he wanted to see each other again in person first and would ask me out then if we had the same connection. Two days after we break up he goes out with his ex again. He assured me this wasnt his intention. He calls me and talks to me still and asks me if im ok everday. But This is really tearing me apart. he has got me to the point where I dont think I can date again for a long time. and when I said tht I couldnt hes like "why? u waiting on me or something" and I said no hes like "were u that in love with me?" The real answer was yes. I was. He hurt me soo bad. I just cant get over him. Im still madly in love with him. Were still like Best friends but I just cant take it. Then hes like "when we go out again,whenever that is" like we mite actually go out again. Im confused. help please?
2006-07-23 05:30:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I HAVE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE AT NOW. IT IS HARD TO GET OVER HIM BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM. JUST BE HAPPY THAT YOU DON'T HAVE A 10 MONTH OLD DAUGHTER WITH HIM. START GOING OUT AND MEETING NEW PEOPLE. WHEN HE CALLS YOU ACT LIKE YOU ARE SO BUSY DOING SOMETHING OR TELL HIM YOU HAVE COMPANY AND YOU HAVE TO HANG UP. GUYS HATE THAT. THEY WANT ALL THE ATTENTION ON THEM. YOU ARE YOUNG YOU WILL MEET ALOT OF NEW GUYS AND THIS SAME THING WILL HAPPEN AGAIN. JUST TRY NOT TO GET TOO ATTACHED.
2006-07-23 06:18:29 · answer #1 · answered by ms_libra83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new school year is going to begin soon. Tell your ex to stop calling you. You need to get involved with some school activities that YOU really enjoy doing, regardless of what other people think. Once you figure out what you enjoy doing, you will meet someone who shares the same interests as you. You can make a new best friend with someone who appreciates what you enjoy doing. One boy does not make the world go around.
2006-07-23 05:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by lstil13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a tip for you, try not to "fall in love" so easily. Also try not to let all the drama bother you, you'll learn more as you get older but don't waste your time thinking about it too much, it will just make you feel worse. And if you don't feel like you can date for a while then don't you have the rest of your life, why rush around getting in relationships for no reason. Hang out with your friends and have fun, because the truth about most guys is, is that they're just after your body. Have fun, don't worry , and watch out for scumbags.
2006-07-23 05:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mike R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a teen get over it. You don't even know what real love is. And you only knew him for a couple of weeks. There is no way you could be in love with a person that fast. Get a life and move on.
2006-07-23 06:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's bad .He thinks you will be there for him all the time .Sorry but you are like his spare part . Don't show that much feeling , some guys like to play game ,when he knows everything he is not interested anymore . I know It is hard but forget about him .Don't care about him .If you act like you don't care he might give you hope again but when you get back everything will end up the same . Don't waste your time . Find someone who loves and really care about you
2006-07-23 05:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him.
Ignore his calls.
Don't see him.
Find new friends.
He is playing games.
He is not nice.
You deserve better.
Build up your confidence by getting rid of him.
Try harder.
He has you like a yo-yo and you are not a toy!
Read- "He's not that into you"
Watch "Love Potion Number 9" see if you have anything in common with Sandra Bullock or her sleazy guy that has her convinced she's his girlfriend but in reality she's his booty call when he can't get play anywhere else...
STOP TALKING TO HIM.
Do yourself the favor.
2006-07-23 06:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I've been there before, I know how you feel. Here is what you have to understand, once you learn to love yourself first then you will be able to love someone else. You have to learn that life is all about trial and error. You try one thing and if it dont work out try something else. Everyone comes in your life for a reason. You got some people that are only meant to be a your for a season and you got others who are there for a lifetime. Your seasonal people are the ones that are there to just teach you lesson and be done. Your lifetime people are there for a lifetime to help you grow and learn throught your whole life. What starts to happen is, you mix your seasonal people for lifetime expectations. Thats where most people get hurt. That one person they love so much, is one of those seasonal people but you want them to be one of your lifetime expectational people. I did that, I feel in love with someone that was only suppose to be in my life to teach me one thing but I fell in love and didnt realize that he was only there to teach me a lesson in life and then it was time to move on. I know it is hard when you love someone so much and you want nothing more than to be with that person but you have to move on with your life. Yeah, you may be down and even cry about it and thats okay but eventually you will tell yourself that you have t go on. If you're not comfrontable having him as a friend then let him go. Its going to be hard to do but you have to think about yourself to hell with him. Sweetie, he does not deserve you and you should want better for yourself. I know you've probably heard this plenty of times, but TRUST ME, you will be able to go on with your life and you will find someone else. I thought the same thing that I wouldnt be able to go out with anyone else. Now, I have a boyfriend, we've been together for 3yrs, we're having a baby in January and planning on getting married in the upcoming years. I'm only 18 so I'm still in college but everything is going okay now. Time will heal all wounds if you let it. I didnt really believe in that statement at first but after what I had went through, its a true statement. You will learn and grow for this experience just give yourself time to worry about you and no one else. You will be okay. If you feel you need someone to talk to you can email me poohn87@aol.com anytime. GOOD LUCK to you....
2006-07-23 06:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is so immature and how you feel is right ..he broke your trust and it will be a long time before you trust someone again and he is not worth it ..if he couldnt be honest with you about seeing his ex again
friends ..for sure ..but you can not trust him with your feelings ...I hope you find someone who deserves your trust
2006-07-23 05:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by pineforestkim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your getting PLAYED! Tell this guy to stop calling you so you can get your act together. Leave him alone.
2006-07-23 05:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by chlobug26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be too blind. dont let him use u. i know he knows what u feel. just playing with u, girl!!! guys know if u like them too. leave him and move forward. dont use heart alone. use head too or might as well join them together. it will be fine.
2006-07-23 05:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by pretty face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋