last night i got really drunk and i punched my friends car window and broke it. then i called another friend who wouldnt come out with us and i told him he is gay like his father. the father really is gay. how do i make things better.
2006-07-23 05:20:20 · 11 answers · asked by eight beers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, you need to sit them down together and tell them that you were too drunk to make any sense and thats why you broke the window and called the other gay. Then you need to offer to pay for the broken window and tell him you'll make it up to him. As for the other guy, unless you really think he is gay, tell him that you're sorry for saying something so hurtful and didn't mean it. It was just the drunk you saying it. And apologize for bringing his father into it. Tell him you accept his lifestyle.
good luck
2006-07-23 05:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by punkdtn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow you really did screw up! Okay first pay for the friends car window and add in a gift with a apology. The friend that you called gay if he won't talk to you write him a letter apologizing a million times and say that what you said disrespectful and he has a right to be really mad at you but you really need him as a friend. Sorry if that last thing sounds a little weird. Good Luck!
2006-07-23 12:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by rockerchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply apologize n person 2 each and everyone of them personally. But I'm afraid u might need to check out your drinking and ask yourself some serious questions, do u always act like this when u drink r get drunk and y. If u answer truthfully r if they tell u that u r a problem when u drink then there is a problem that probally needs 2 b looked into.
2006-07-23 12:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by mf mf mf mf mf fmf mf mfmfmfmfmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize.
I mean drinking too much and saying/doing stupid things basically go hand in hand.
Pay to fix the window (duh...that should be a no brainer), and call the offended friend and ask forgiveness.
I think the offened friend is probably more hurt than the friend with the broken window. You may have to work a bit harder to mend that fence. But I would do it soon!!
2006-07-23 12:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 - Regarding the car window is your lawful responsibility and the honest thing to do to pay for it.
2 - APOLOGIZE to both of your friends because your behavior was shameful.
3 - About your friend with the gay dad, is not your friend's or his dad's fault he is gay, and if he trusted you with such personal information says very little about your sensitivity as a human being that you would bring that up to hurt your friend, you came out as an homophobic. If your friend was my friend I would advise him not to be friends with you anymore.
4 - Analyze and accept responsibility about your behavior, you did TWO VERY AWFUL things in one night, I believe is time for you to seek help about your drinking. Is that really the kind of person you want to be?
2006-07-23 12:39:14 · answer #5 · answered by esmefort 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you need to step up and take responsibility for your actions.
Of course you have to pay for the windshield and make an apology to the friend you hurt. You also need to consider the alcohol and maybe give it up if you can't control it.
Being drunk is no excuse for your behavior because you don't have to drink, but chose to anyway.
2006-07-23 12:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by opie with an attitude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop getting drunk and then sincerely apologize to the people you hurt while being drunk
oh yeah, pay for the window you broke
2006-07-23 12:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move away to another town in the middle of the night an hope they dont see u leave
2006-07-23 12:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by personnosrep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things cool of and then say you are sorry to whomever you said thing and next time you need to be more careful
2006-07-23 12:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by juanita2_2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought I was bad when i drank hence the name
2006-07-23 12:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋