Men cheating!!!!?

Question

WHY IS IT OK FOR A MAN TO CHEAT ON HIS GIRLFRIENED OR WIFE? THEN WHEN WE DO IT WE ARE IN THE WRONG? WHY IS THIS????

Answer 1

I am a guy and I feel it is wrong for a man to cheat on his wife or fiancee and same for the woman too. Now this b/f g/f thing you are talking about is something we didn't do in school or right out of high school either. We called it dating someone, you went out with a girl, if you liked her you continued to do so, and her the same but if he or she wanted to go out with someone else it was OK, it let men and women meet other people and see how they were and it actually helped with making up there mind about the person they have been dating. It would let them see what they had in the other person. Just because you are b/f g/f, does this mean that sex is in play? Things have changed to much, there was a system and it worked and worked well, you use to go out on a date and maybe kissed some, but mostly hung out and talked and got to know a person, then if he or she met someone else then they would go out and have a good time, women are giving up to easy and to soon. Well anyway I am rambling on, Good luck.

Answer 2

Cheating is wrong no matter who's doing it.
Some people think 'if they don't know, then it can't hurt' is so not right because a lie will always catch up to you.

Maybe what you want to know is why do women accept cheaters? That would be because some women have low self esteem and think they don't deserve better, for some it's the fear of not having a man, or loosing him with confrontations, on and on.

If women took the attitude that they are just as important to the man in a relationship, maybe things would change

Answer 3

since when is that ok?
studies show most of the cheating is done by women, not men.
There are too many stupid people in the world. A man who sleeps with a lot of women is a man hoe, a woman who sleeps with a lot of man is a hoe, same goes for homosexuals.

Quit holding double standards.

Answer 4

That's retarded, it's not OK for anyone to cheat. Our culture makes women seem more mature and high and mighty, where is it makes men seem more immature. So when men do it, they are expected too because we are looked at as flawed in some why, women tend to think of them selves as mentally superior, and out culture allows this. Think of this the next time you look at men as stupid or immature. You allow it to be this way.

Answer 5

Women carry their mistakes for 9months while men only make little deposits. Whats the sense of a double standard if it fails to prove men are the masters?? To a man cheating is like changing shoes but for his woman to cheat is like having breast augmentation. Ego's rule in men but they expect their females to turn a blind eye on cheating they do.

Answer 6

What's wrong with you, it's not okay for a man to cheat!! In fact, it's not okay for anyone to cheat. If you don't want to be with that person, or if you want to be with some new, then be big enough to leave that person and move on!! Bottom line.........if you cheat, you're a coward!!

Answer 7

don't you know that men can sleep with hundreds of women and it cool but if a woman does it she a hoe
but cheating i think it wrong either way so if your man is cheating leave him because he will did it again

Answer 8

Is it ok? I was raised differently I guess. It's wrong for either party to cheat, but I guess it's that darn double standard biting you women in the ***.

Answer 9

No one ever said it was ok for ANYONE to cheat on anyone.
There is never a good reason for it.
And cheating on them, because they cheated on you, well, that's bullcrap. If you didn't want to cheat you wouldn't have regardless. People just use that as an excuse to justify them wanting to cheat as well.

Answer 10

Because only in the past few years is that subject less taboo. Men are threatened that we are pissing on their "cheating fire hydrant" and don't like it. Because then they'll have to worry like we do. And experience the hurt. Granted they do still move on faster than we do.