Do you think that i was wrong for what i did. It felt so good to inflict pain on him.
2006-07-23 04:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YOU are abusive! There is NO other word for it. This is spousal abuse.
Does being angery give anyone the right to hurt someone?
Another wrong is fighting violence with violence! Don't Do it!
Im glad you came forward...whoever you are...becuase most women get away with abuse. I wish all abusers (men and women) would come forth.
By this woman's actions, is the very reason why the VAWA needs to be changed to cover all VICTIMS of abuse... Not just women. The VAWA is extremely sexist and bias, it makes me sick.
I myself am a survivor of abuse, and so is my 7 year old son(though at the time of the abuse, my son was only 2.5 years old). Mind you, the police treated me as the perpetrator...even though I was bleeding, stabbed, and beaten... I didn't lay a hand on her... other than to try to protect my son and I from her. But that is all it took to nail me as an "agressor".
I WISH MEN TO STAND UP, EXPOSE THE ABUSE THEY RECEIVE, AND LET IT BE KNOWN!
As I have stood my ground and told about the abuse my son and I endured, I've been deeply criticized, called "crazy" and other names, and completely discredited. Even though my son received physical abuse by his mother, even the courts refused to charge her for abuse. Listen... I don't care what names you call me, what people think...THE TRUTH MUST BE TOLD!
IT IS TO BE A MAN TO STAND UP FOR OURSELVES, IT IS COWARD TO JUST LET IT HAPPEN! DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT... NOW!
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2006-07-23 04:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Timmmay! 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it was wrong, and you are apparently feeling guilty about it. If you want to know how it feels, ask him to do it back to you.
Tell him you are sorry and don't do it again. Next time you're angry, find another outlet for your anger, like getting on the Internet and talking about it, exercising, calling a friend or simply telling him that you feel angry and why.
2006-07-23 12:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, that is wrong...... spouse abuse comes from both ends and that is abuse.
How about if he were to ground his steel toe boots into your stomach and chest!!!!!!!! You would probably ask all of us "what you should do?" and we would probably be telling you to leave him. Abuse is abuse, It makes no difference just because a women is the one inflicting the pain.
2006-07-23 11:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you NEED anger management classes...t he sooner the better.
Those who live by the sword, will die by the sword. If you are abusive to almost anyone long enough...the will fight back and this is when most women do get hurt in domestic violence. If it is abuse if a man does it to a woman, it is abuse if a woman does it to a man.
BTW...the anger management classes could give you something to do when you are sitting in...JAIL for assult.
2006-07-23 13:54:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant hit and abuse him when you are mad its not right you wouldn't want him to hit you when he was mad at you would you?
and i think you should she some kind of doctor because you said it felt good to inflict pain on him right yeah well must people unless they are crazy killers don't like to inflict pain on others
2006-07-23 11:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by over the top 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably deserved it. If he hadn't of made you angry, you wouldn't have nearly killed him with it. Bottom line is that it's his fault for inciting your wrath. He needs to take responsibility for it and next time be more sensitive to your needs, or follow orders without asking a bunch of questions. Sometimes husbands forget their place.
2006-07-23 11:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are abusing your spouse. I hope he calls the cops on you.
Unless this is the mutual kink you guys are into. If he didn't consent to it, then I hope you get slapped down for it.
Oh, and that kind of pressure in those areas can do things like tear his liver. So you could have killed him, too. Hope you like jail.
2006-07-23 11:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wanted you to do that It's OK... But I sense that you did it just to **** him over. This is not cool, You need some counciling. You should never abuse anyone.... next time try talking
2006-07-25 19:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Aoife M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey if it feels so good it can't be wrong right?
Is it weird that i'm getting turned on?
2006-07-23 11:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were the other way around. If out of anger he would have broken your nose or jaw, would it have been OK?
2006-07-23 11:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋