It involves me and my crush and my friend who moved away ages ago and I haven't seen for at least three years. We were sitting in a classroom which was also a grocery store. He was sitting on my left and she (my friend) was on my right. I kept asking my friend questions about our college (we don't go to the same college but in the dream we did.) I was excited because we were both doing art. My crush was asking me questions but it was hard to talk to both of them. Then my friend thought my crush was fit so she moved over to him and was leaning over him and he liked it. but I didn't. He went away for a bit and I said to her 'please don't do that' and I was telling her I really liked him. Then he was talking to my friend and hardly talking to me. Also at the end people stared throwing fruit (I think thats irrelevant) What do you think it means?
2006-07-23 04:28:37 · 21 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What do YOU think it means? Go to a library, they might have a book on dream meanings. :)
2006-07-23 04:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kali 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Firstly nothing can be irrelevant in a dream, so the fruit/grocery store is obviously about something. As with all dreams the imagery here is personal to you. Ask yourself what that old friend meant/means to you - whats the first thing that comes to mind when you think about her?. She more than likely represents a part of your own psyche, she will have certain qualities that are relevant to your feelings about this crush. The fact that you are in college is probably to do with this being some kind of lesson that you have to learn - possibly with regard to relationships and sexual feelings.
It seems that you are stuck in the middle somehow. Torn between listening to two different feelings. One inner voice - represented by your friend is saying one thing - the other voice is saying another but you are more in tune with the first feeling which is drowning out the feeling represented by your crush! I'm really only specualting to try to help you to look at your dream in different ways. Well good luck I hope you reach some understanding of your dream. Dreams contain a lot of wisdom if we know how to find it. Oh and maybe the fruit is some kind of sexual image?
2006-07-23 12:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mick H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy!!!!
The Grocery store/classrom symbolises learning and choice.
Given the sexual nature of your dream, this relates to learnng about relationships and picking partners. Being in the middle puts you in command in the situation you think, but not in practice. It represents how you want a compehensive social life, with friends AND a boyfriend.
But it's not that easy, by ignoring the boy, who was interested in you, you showed you are not ready for relationships (or onewith him), but you find that your friend is!
The people that appear in your dreams are often the people you like or admire, so this reinforces that you are sorry you drifted apart from your friend.
Possibly though, catching up with her was just more important at the time.
If you regret not talking to your crush, you took too long to make a move because you were more interested in talking to your friend. You liked the idea of putting him 'on ice' and enjoyed fantasising that he was yours, but weren't ready to commit. The art is how you symbolised your expression, as part of your communication- can you remembr what you were drawing? It will represent your relationship to your old schoolfriend.
The fruit throwing suggests that you feel everyone else is having fun and experiencing their relationships, it also means your idea of free love, being shown by your classmates/shoppers (peers).
It brings the dream to a neat close and is a dramatic theatrical finish, symbolising a lost chance, or that it was all a bit of fun anyway sodon't worry about it?!
2006-07-23 12:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by syelark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean a few things
1 - It could mean that you feel you don't have your crush or your friend and you are 'outside' both their lives
2- It could mean that subconsciously you feel your friend liked your crush also, and/or your crush liked your friend
The fruit could be relevant, such as the fruit of your efforts being thrown out.
The BEST dream interpreter for ANY dream is yourself, because what means something good to you may mean something negative to someone else. If anyone tells you that your dream means only this, listen to what they say, but decide for yourself what it really means. The best any dream interpreter can hope to do is give you possible explainations, but only you know if their explaination is what your dream really means
2006-07-23 11:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably that you are dealing with a lot of conflicting and new emotions and situations.
Why don't you go get a book that has dream symbols in it and use that as a starting point. Your symbols will become clear to you after you begin looking for them and yours are uniquely your own. If you are serious about watching and learning from your dreams then begin to keep a dream journal, writing down your dreams or what ever you can remember of them as soon as you wake. It can be a fun and rewarding thing to do. Good luck!
2006-07-23 11:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Batty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is telling you how much you like him...and the appearance of your friend was demonstrating to you that he may not be a good choice for you...for it creates anxiety in you...and the stress is getting to you from having to worry about it. You obviously don't trust him. The fruit represents you "putting it out there" and the general consensus will be you that you should take another look at this relationship.
2006-07-23 11:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are good. I was thinking bisexuality too. Oh the other hand, I'm thinking your girlfriend is interested in you so she decides to flirt with your crush -- maybe to show you that he would not be trustworthy and have your best interests at heart. Dreams can either be a warning or a confirmation about something. You decide!
2006-07-23 11:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by cajun7_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a check payable to me as i am a certified dream interperter.just kidding . if your dream is a recuring one meaning it keeps occuring. you may want to get in contact with the individual you might be surpressing inwardly a desire to see this person again . dreams have a way of revealing are true desires its like when you have a wet dream you cant control what the dream feilds conjure up ,or it is equivalant to drunk person saying something that he or she wouild never normally say or do a thought or feeling that is surpressed . find your freind and let them no that even tho they have been gone thoughts of them still linger, you might be surprised at the results
2006-07-23 11:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by gasmanrolle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you are a little insecure. You might have a slightly jealous side and you really don’t want your crush to like anyone else or maybe you feel your friend is attractive and she might try to take him away from you. It does not mean your gay in any way.
2006-07-23 11:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by zerospacegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you stay away from grocery stores with classrooms in them, that's just creepy. Also be well aware of fruit, if they start talking to you, then you sould go to a shrink, and tell him everything.
He just might be able to help you.
2006-07-23 11:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by KingCucamonga 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a rival and you fear that if you had a boy friend some one will steal him from you, her been in a different college is your safe net may be the fruit thing is like pears she might have beaning showing hers off and you might not be as well built as her in your dream the school is a place of learning so your dream is saying learn the lessons of life
2006-07-23 12:40:24 · answer #11 · answered by eyeswideshut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋