Wasn't that the right thing to do?
2006-07-23 04:24:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just dropped an atomic bomb on his head worse than any Iraqi could do. As an ex Viet Nam Vet/POW, the only hope one has in a battlefield is knowing someone back home loves you and you cant wait til you get back home to this person. Its the only thing that gives one hope in a really bad situation. Yes, what you did was probably the worst thing anyone could do to another person in this situation. Like the boys in Viet Nam that got those letters , they wish you were there in enemy territory and you would get shot. Youve done enough damage now, and theres probably nothing you can do, although you could write him and say youre sorry, that you wrote it only because you were mad that he wasnt there with you and hope it helps, especially before something happens. Good luck
2006-07-23 04:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 12⤊ 0⤋
Well first it depends on the reason you want to divorce him! Im not gonna try and get all up in your business but If it's just because he's been in Iraq for a while then I don't think you should divorce him for that reason alone!!! Our troops are not over there by their choice but they have to follow the orders of the president!And if he's fighting the war for our country!I think he would fight that much harder for his marriage and his family!!!This is a time that He needs Love and support from his wife!!! Trust me My son has to go to Iraq and hes only 18 and I'm gonna do whatever it takes to hold him up and keep him strong!Family means the most when you're in a place that no body knows much about and we don't understand the things that the troops have to go through because we just here doing what we choose not doing what were told! God Bless you and I hope you make the right decision!!!
2006-07-23 11:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, If your husband is over there fighting in Iraq hes probably got a lot on my mind and telling him you want a divorce could very well be what puts him over the edge. unless before he left for Iraq you were both already planning on a divorce. If you only want to divorce him because he is over in Iraq and can't be with you I don't think thats right either. But since I don't know the whole problem I will stick that it was probably wrong. He has so many problems on his mind that one didn't need to be in the air.
2006-07-23 11:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think that was right. You could not wait til he got home? I mean he is already under enough stress than he calls to hear you voice and you tell him you want a divorce. You should really think about it how would that make you feel?You really should of waited until he came home than at least you could tell him in person face to face.Or are you scared because if that is the case than you should go stay with someone close for awhile or until he comes back than talk to him. All i keep thinking about is what he feels i mean he is across country fighting and now he is wondering what the hell is going on at home but since you already did the deed i think it is going to be tough
2006-07-23 11:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but I am with Busby - whatever problems or issues your marriage has is on hold when he's at war and in constant danger - you'd be surprised how much you and the marriage may be the only thing he's holding on to.... I am a military wife and my husband is deployed and I am sorry but what you did is to me one of the lowest and cruelest actions possible. God be with your husband and have mercy on you for your thoughtless delivery of those words.
2006-07-23 11:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by KitKat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That kind of thing should be done in person. Go fly to Iraq and serve him papers Try not to get blown up.
2006-07-23 11:30:54 · answer #6 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dam n i'm usually all for inflicting pain on people but what you did was foul. he's got other sh it to worry about right now and the last thing he needs is for you to tell him that. You should have waited until he was home because now his morale is low and depending on what he does you might have just put other guy's lives in danger because he will be depressed and not focusing on the mission.
2006-07-23 11:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're husband is in Iraq serving his country, that was the worst thing on earth you could have possibly done to him... I just hope somebody returns the favor and ruins your life soon...
YOU ARE A CRUEL, HEARTLESS B*TCH!!!!!!!!
2006-07-23 11:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by J P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now that you have done that....wait to see if he makes it home.....now he will be depressed, you were probably the only reason for coming home.....not he doesn't have that to look forward too, he may well have a death wish.....with luck, he will be a hero if he dies, and not commit suicide
2006-07-23 12:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad move Athena. Have the courage to wait until he gets home and tell him face to face.
2006-07-23 11:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Albannach 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋