a couple of months ago i found out that all these guyz were hitting on her like tryin 2 go up her skirt nd flirting with her i wuz really pissed at first but she sed she wuzn't doing ne of it nd she always left when they did that nd she loved me so i didn't do nething
but yesterday she wuz tlking bout how a while ago she put this guyz ipod in her shirt nd then the guy wuz like give me back my ipod nd then shes like go get it nd he reached in her shirt nd got it nd i told her that that made me really pissed nd i didn't want nething like that happening again i don't thk im being 2 strict but am i? nd should i stay with her? nd give her another chance? or just break up with her now feeedback needed
2006-07-23 04:20:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Geesh, this is a no brainer.
You can love someone but not be able to be with them.
She seems to repeat bad behavior and has little reapect for you and your relaiontship.
Move on,your worth a better gf
2006-07-23 04:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask her why she tells you that? Say, "hey, what's up with all this crazy shyte?" Instead of getting too pissed, try to find out what her motivations are. If you do this, you'll a) have a better feel for whether or not you should stay with her or b) have some form of clearer communication with her which will enhance your relationship. Plus, women love men who will listen to them.
She's doing this for a reason, and she TOLD you about the iPod incident for a reason. She either wants to see how far she can go, or maybe she wants guys on the side, or maybe she wants you to break up with her. It might be something entirely different. It's up to you to figure out what the reason is and make your own decision on whether or not to leave.
2006-07-23 11:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Feedback:
It is obvious that she is a little immature for her age. Being flirtatious can be a good thing if it is just throwing around your self confidence.. but she is going beyond that. She is actually daring men to take force upon her to take what she has put in her skirt.. so Yes your RED flags are very RIGHT on this one.... This is not only disrespectful to you as her boyfriend... but it is lack of respect for herself to welcome such advances.. If she needs that kind of thrill... drop her as fast as you heard that. You don't need to always be worrying about how she is going to act up when you are not watching.. always waiting for that bomb to drop and her to talk about more dumb things she did that disrespected you when you were not there. How much are you worth? Do you not see that she is not mature enough to be in a relationship with a guy who obviously cares for her. I'm sure you are a great guy and the right girl is out there for you. You just gotta get rid of the one that is cluttering your view! Show her and those around you that you actually have self respect and won't tolerate this kind of behavior... it's your best bet!!! You are a winner.. why are you gonna hang around for a looser!!!~Angelisa
2006-07-23 11:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Angelisa Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious are you about the relationship? Really! I think I have said this before to someone else, if it isn't a long term type relationship, why sweat it?
I don't think she is really that committed to you, honestly. I mean she put some guy's ipod down her SHIRT! SERIOUSLY!!
Why would she have done that and said "go get it" if she was really into you?
Honestly, if you were my brother and he told me that, I would be up in your girl's face asking her what the heck she was thinking and telling her where to get off!
She is just ONE step away from full out cheating; sleeping with another guy.
She flirts with other guys AND she encourages other guys to flirt with her! She is sending out a lot of signals to other guys and it isn't going to be too long before one of them takes her up on it.
I would get out of the relationship!
2006-07-23 11:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a flousy and wants to be the attention of everyone. I do not think she thinks of you as a boyfriend. Maybe you should try something that she does and see what she does in respect to what she does to you. See if she gets jelious or not. If she does then tell her well that is what you do in front of me and all and wanted you to see how it felt. Then ask her if she will please stop what she is doing and tell her how much she really means to you if you want to keep the relationship with her. Then tell her if she want to keep the relation with you that it does not look right for a girlfriend to do things like that and it makes her look cheep.
2006-07-23 11:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by winnie.pooh4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break Up
2006-07-23 11:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by boxing_fan_4_wlad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told her how you felt,and she acted like she don't care then you should brake up with her. But if you do stay with hee make it clear you will not put up with her crap.
2006-07-23 11:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u realy like then give her one last chance but if are fed up with this then dump her
2006-07-23 11:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by talia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better stear clear of #2
2006-07-23 11:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up find your self a hot girl and make joules and have sweet sex with her........ then dump her again
2006-07-23 11:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋