2006-07-23 04:18:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's cruel to just stop talking to someone without an explanation. Tell her you've met someone else. Tell you can't help the way you feel and it's just not "there" for you. She'll be hurt. But if you don't tell her anything, she'll probably call obsessively until you do.
2006-07-23 04:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by MEL T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably a kid. The best remedy for this is to look deep inside yourself and ask yourself why you feel this way. Has she hurt you? Is she annoying in some way? You need to try your best to find the reason why -- and confront it. Then, you need to confront her and see if she can change. If she was a friend then I think there was something of value you saw there. Don't give up on the relationship right away; try to make it work. If you cannot then just let her know that you think it would be best to go your separate ways for a while and then see if you miss her. At least you can say you didn't give up but tried to give it a chance to work.
2006-07-23 04:24:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really difficult. Okay I want you to kind of shake your arms to relax yourself. Look her in the eyes and repeat this to her--"I...Don't...Like...You...Any-more. It may take some practice and a little rehearsal to memorize your lines. Oh...you might want to realize that emotional pain hurts, but not as much when your honest when its administered. She/he ask why. Be honest. If you were ever their friend, be a friend and help them fix their problems by telling them the truth.
My philosophy--If you ever find your self in a confused state, the best way to end the confusion is to make a decision--Any Decision. Then you can deal with the consequences. Much faster and in the end much easier.
2006-07-23 04:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just slowly disconnect from your friend. If they call asking you to come over, then just be like "Oh I can't. I am going over to BLAH'S house." THen the next time she calls, just dont answer, and so on and so on. Good luck. Just don't go up to them and say "I don't like you anymore." If you want to disconnect from them ASAP, just take them somewhere private [a restraunt and by private I mean with no othe friends around] and let them know that ur starting to not like them so much. Then tewll them why. Just be open and honest as well as a LITTLE sympathetic. Good luck with that dude.
2006-07-23 04:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't just abandon your friend without saying anything - that will only make her feel bewildered, hurt, and resentful.
If you don't like her anymore, call her up and tell her that you want to move on in terms of your friendship. Let her know that you no longer think they are compatible and that your friendship with her no longer makes sense to you. Wish her the best...and let her know that if there's anything she really needs from you, she can still contact you (if you're open to that).
Good luck.
2006-07-23 04:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♪ ♥ ♪ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you don't agree with her personality anymore so you think it would be best if you two stopped talking to each other for a while. If she gets mad at you, why do you care? You don't like her anymore.
And if you don't like talking to people, then just gradually stop talking to her. When she asks you about it then tell her.
2006-07-23 04:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be totally honest with her and tell her how you feel and you would prefer not to be friends anymore
2006-07-23 04:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Texas_at_its_best 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell it like it is. If you stand up for yourself, she'll realize that you don't want to be her friend anymore. Or, the silent treatment works.
2006-07-23 04:55:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just slowly back away from her. not literally of course, but i think you know what i mean. start hanging out with her less and less, don't just all of a sudden stop. don't talk to her as much about things that you usually tell her, and just slowly but surely become less friens with her. either that, jsut flat out say it, if she makes oyu mad or something. say it, and just walk away. it's rude, but if you think it has to be done, then you will do it. sya "i'm sorry, but i don't like you anymore" it sounds stupid, but it works!
2006-07-23 04:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to say anything. If she insist then you tell her you don't like her anymore.
2006-07-23 04:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋