2006-07-23 04:12:23 · 10 answers · asked by gary m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Only if your wife is friends with her too.
2006-07-23 04:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by frankiquilts 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to be very cautious about female friends. Even if you don't have an affair, you might have whats called an emotional affair. And believe me that will hurt your marriage even if you wife never knows about it.
Nothing wrong with friendship. Just make sure the two of you are in a group of fellow workers. It isn't worth sabatoging your marriage over.
2006-07-23 11:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is but I also think it is wise to be cautious that it does not turn into something more. If you are able to talk to your wife about her and your wife is comfortable. No need in risking your marriage over a friendship at work.
2006-07-23 11:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by windfall187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not doing anything with this girl, that would cause your wife to be mad, it should be fine. Just because you are married, does not mean you can't have friends. But just remember to respect your wife's opnions on the matter, and try to put yourself in her shoes.
2006-07-23 11:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it doesnt go past friends then it should be ok, but make sure that your wife knows about your friend.
2006-07-23 12:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absoulutly! Just be fathful to your wife. Don't go ou to anything thats "strictly business" cuz it never is just "strictly business". You get me? And tell your wife about her openly. Not likeoverloading her to where you seem almost nervious, just be like "Hey honey. Did I tell you about blah? Well She's my good frind at work and I was wondering if you would mind if WE [if you accidently say "I", your nights screwed.] had her over for dinner mauybe sometime this week?"
2006-07-23 11:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell that it is. I am in that situation myself, everyone thinks that you have something going on but chances are you only see her at work. Don`t let what others say stop you from being friends.
2006-07-23 11:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by srherr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I get sick of those people that tell me "you can't have a guy for a friend cause your husband will get jealous". A person can have friends of a different sex.
2006-07-23 11:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by banshee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely, however it is wrong to pretend or lead anyone to believe that there is anything more than friendship betweeen the 2 of you. that could get sticky.
2006-07-23 11:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah
2006-07-23 11:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋