2006-07-23 04:01:48 · 17 answers · asked by dave_edwards37 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hmmmm
Well, it won't be easy. I guess it depends a lot on what you did to destroy it. Was it one act, or years of being dishonest and untrustworthy?
Either way, it is a long road back, and you need to be open and honest with each family member that you feel you lost.
Don't be elaborate b/c your family is just going to thing you are bs'ing them, try something simple in the begining, like, "I'M SORRY." That's the first step. Tell your family you are sorry and you are going to work hard to rebuild.
It isn't easy, but it isn't impossible, either.
2006-07-23 04:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might never get them back. It takes a long time to earn trust back. Whatever you did sure wasn't worth losing your family over.
Be consistant about your resolve to earn their trust and forgiveness. If you don't, you might have to start over again. Which would be very sad.
Give it all you have.
2006-07-23 11:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes u can't get back the trust. i guess u should have thought about the consequences before u destroy the trust. that is very hard to get back trust. good luck.
2006-07-23 11:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean you cheated on your wife and she left with the kids...there's no easy answer to that. i am not sure exactly what you mean though.
the most logical thing to say is that you should have thought about that before you "destroyed the trust".
if it's possible to get it back, the only thing that will heal the wound is time. you'll have to win them back a litle bit at a time. no person you hurt is going to let you back in their heart with arms wide open. don't get frustrated and drive them even farther away because things don't get resoved quickly.
2006-07-23 11:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by kogirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..it's very difficult to gain trust from the person that u love but u break it..it's happen to me..it take along time for me to forgive my hubby for what he did to me..we can forgive but we can't forget the matter till we die..it will stay with us forever..as for the trust it's going to take times and u can't get the 100 % trust any more at least 50-50 or even lesser then that..if u are really sincere,u will get it one day..juz wish u all the best in trying..
2006-07-23 12:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by azizah2minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch!!! That is usually a long, hard road. You have to prove to them that you can be trusted again. Once you have broken someone's trust the only remedy is time, time, and more time.
2006-07-23 11:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring back the trust
2006-07-23 11:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring back the trust by doing wht they say...do thinks for them, even if u hv to sacrifice on things u like.
hope this helps,
good luck!
2006-07-23 11:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by !i!i!i!FaRnAzA!i!i!i!i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you know you've ruined there trust,but you want to work to get it back...then the only way is to show them you've straighten out. Had to do this myself once...everyone falls..the tough get back up. good luck
2006-07-23 11:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by cassiepiehoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds. be yourself I am sure you are a good person. we all do things in our lives we have regretted it takes time for us to even forgive ourselves. hopefully it makes you stronger and a better person. they will see this. family is family you will always be blood. soon or later hopefully you all can joke and laugh about it later..what else is family for....:)
2006-07-23 15:13:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋