ok so.....i am 15 and my bf is 16. we where in my room with the lights out and door closed. i was laying on him and we were just making out. and then my dad walked in right in time for me to get off him. he made my bf go home after that....but didn't talk to me about what me and my bf were doing......do you think he trusts me and alll that other stuff?
2006-07-23 03:56:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are old enough to have a boyfriend then you are old enough to have a mature discussion with your father.
2006-07-23 04:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reality of the situation is, as I see it, that you both have raging hormones (you and your bf). A little making out and/or necking and things could get overheated really quick. I think he should have had a little better communication with you, but I bet he wasn't quite sure what to say. He was a 16 year old boy once too...
You may not have learned this yet, but as much as you don't understand your dad, it may be best to attempt to talk. Talking is how men communicate. Usually in very short messages, but occasionally a rant. If you are ever really worried about what a loved one thinks, ask them.
2006-07-23 11:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by BigPappa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication.....that is what this world lacks. Personally, I think your dad should have talked to you about it. I am not talking about getting on your case about it but talking about it. The thing is your dad may have been embarrassed or didn't feel like it was much of an issue. The best way to find out if he trusts you is to ask him.
2006-07-23 11:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Mav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he either trusts you or he likes the idea of having grandchildren at an early age. Perhaps, he was taking a time out so as not to physically
harm the people he loves?
2006-07-23 11:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by The Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he's upset and scared.
that was very cool of you to do, I know you weren't doing anything but you were still doing something, in your own room, when your parents are at home.
You really need to respect your family, he might trust you but with things like this you will quickly lose that trust and it will take years or more to regain it.
You need to think carefully about your situation, you are young and living at home, is fooling aound worth alienating your parents at your age? You have your entire life ahead of you and plenty of time for stuff like that and you want your family supporting you all the way
2006-07-23 11:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by Karce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur dad walked in on u guys and u just got off him just as ur dad came in ur room and sent ur bf home, i would say he pry doesnt trust u that much. so, the next time ur bf comes over ur dad is pry going to be keeping a close eye on u guys
2006-07-23 11:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by the_cute_princess12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of father lets his 15y/o daughter disappear into her bedroom with a 16y/o boy? Lights out? Door closed? Sheesh.
If my daughter tried that, she'd be grounded for months and he would have my boot print on his bottom.
You don't deserve his trust.
2006-07-23 11:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mark Zed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad has his suspicions, after all, a guy was in your room. If he didn't see anything, then I think you have a chance to redeem yourself. If you are worrying about trust, maybe your dad is worried whether he should trust you, too.
2006-07-23 11:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your dad right now feels very strange and confused about what he saw..He doesnt know what to tell you probably and u r just 15 and his lil girl..that was definately something he wasnt expecting.. I think you need to talk to him..and u need to have a long talk with him..
2006-07-23 11:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That your dad didn't say anything doesn't mean he trusts you but it doesn't mean he doesn't trust you! In fact, he knows what has happened from his past experiences.
2006-07-23 11:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋