Well to be a virgin at 21yoa is to be commended. Masturbating is natural and to lose your erection the first time you were about to have sex is a mind thing and alcohol didn't help either. Next time you attempt to have sex, try to relax. If you drink, don't drink to much and be sure to use a condom.Have feelings for the lady you are with and go slow. Think about the pleasures of the act and of course "her". Good luck it will work out for you I am sure. I detect being a Little bashful here but that too will past.
2006-07-23 03:44:12
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answered by Jerry 6
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Many factors could have influenced the situation, like the drinking - sucks for inexperienced guys, but it can affect arousal. The fact that it was your first time could also play a part in what happened. Don't worry about it, things will get easier.
2006-07-23 10:35:23
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answered by Just me.... 4
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It is probably fine if you can masturbate to an orgasm than you probably don't have an erectile disfunction. Just play with yoursself to keep an erection.
2006-07-23 10:33:09
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answered by Ben B 2
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when u masturbate to much u get weak and some times if u do it too much it can cripple u but in ur case ui lost erection in ur penis
2006-07-23 10:33:02
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answered by froggy 2
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first off you were drunk, second you probably needed her to masturbate you a bit first so you felt more comfortable. Dont rush things
2006-07-23 11:36:34
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answered by marishka 5
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hi
2006-07-23 11:00:15
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answered by cool_girl 1
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maybe you were too drunk , try to relax the first time is always exciting but try to relax and you will be able to do it .
2006-07-23 10:39:30
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answered by Dayan 4
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You were drunk, dude. Try it sober next time.
2006-07-23 10:56:38
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answered by Velociraptor 5
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u didnt know what u were doing next time relax
2006-07-23 10:30:28
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answered by Victoria 6
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just relax and your time will come. make it nice and romantic
2006-07-23 12:35:35
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answered by Anonymous
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