If a guy told a girl that she likes her, loves her even, and sees her to be his wife but is not ready for a commitment yet and asks her to wait for him to be ready and in the meantime asks permission to date other girls.And gave permission for her to date as well but cautioned her not to give her heart to another guy.Is he really into her?I'm so pathetic.Why do I fall for the wrong men?Grrrrrrrrr.
2006-07-23 01:56:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This guy is totally unreliable.
He just wants to broaden his choices, while giving you false hopes.
Shy away from him.
2006-07-23 02:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by luigibrasile 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but this will be under the saying. Want your cake and eat it to. He's using you. When things don't go the way he wants that evening he will call you to fill in. So lets just stand up straight suck in in and tell him to move on its over. Your falling for the wrong men because you are most probably looking just for the totally sexy guy. Look a little further may not be totally sexy but good looking and have a barrel of laughs with him.
2006-07-23 09:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you need to move on. you dont' need a man to tell you that. he's taking you honey. oh ya.............he sounds ready. with a girl on his arm.........let it go. your worth more then that to have some guy treat you like that. and if it keeps happening to you. then you need to maybe take a break from relationships and work on yourself. cause when you get better, so will you choices in men. how long ago was the last time you were alone for a significant amount of time? how long did that solitude last for? if nothing changes nothing changes. insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results. take a break, take a break for you. not for them. for you.
maybe its not the men you should be looking to. look to your sisters for advise. the men aren't looking at it from a womens point of view. your sisters can help you and call you on b/s a lot more quickly then a man would.
2006-07-23 09:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer. So let me encourage you to look elsewhere. That is one LOSER if I have ever seen or met one. He wants you to keep loving him while he goes out and cheats on you. To make the deal appealing to you, he gives permission (is he your boyfriend or your father?) for you to date other people, but conditions that permission that you keep yourself for him.
A real man is more man than that. He resembles a man but is only a child, no matter how many years he has. Keep looking, maybe in other places, the real man will show up.
2006-07-23 09:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run! He is not deserving of your time or attentions. A male like that (note I didn't call him a man) is outto get what he can, and be dishonest. You need to become what you are looking for in a mate(if you are not already) and then the right man will be attracted to you.
Many times we get caught in a pattern of choosing people who will hurt us, and that is hard to break but not impossible. Believe me. Being alone is better than having someone dishonest around to torment you, and alone doesn't have to be lonely. Solitude can be good,while we grow......
2006-07-23 09:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by onewhoknows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a man who was married for 40 years, toss this guy out of your life.
my personal thoughts is he just wants to play the field .
with what you are asked to do and wait is not the type of person you want to wait for.
My wife would have told me to hit the door and dont let it slam on my rump.
Appears this guy is a playboy only with no serious commitment.
hang in there mr right will come and stick to your guns.
others may not agree , that's there right
2006-07-23 09:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an old trick bya guy who likes a girl but doesnt love her
yet dont wanna lose her just in case she might be his best option
in other words he's using u like a spare tyre
oldest trick in the book
2006-07-23 08:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by The Hitman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not into you or in love with you. If you truly love someone you couldn't bare to date someone else or have them date someone else. Your idiot bf is trying to play the field while still holding on to you in case it doesn't workout the way he plans. You are an insurance policy against his failure
2006-07-23 09:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he tell you this before you got married ,is this have anything to do with the things you won"t in life if not let him go if he was"int ready for marriage then he should not of got married .sounds like he won"ts to put you on ice till in his own he decided he is ready for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!............KICK HIM TO THE CURB!. GOOD LUCK. There are still plenty of good men out there who no what they won"t and who will treat you like the Queen you deserve to be treated like
2006-07-23 09:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by 66hamerheadPD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking advantage of you. If he says these things about how he loves you and then wants to see other girls, he is full of it. Do not trust this guy, he might seem nice but he is just taking advantage of you.
2006-07-23 09:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋