i am ready for things like i am only 16 years old and he did not to put condom on he seems he wants me to get pregnant.
2006-07-23 01:40:40 · 22 answers · asked by BERJEAFRIJUN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He broke up with you? That dirty dog!!! He's not worth it. I know right now he may seem like "the one" but he's not. Does he love you? If he did he would wait you were ready so I could be special for the both of you, not just him. The fact that he would use the "If you love me" line should tell you that he doesn't really care much for how you feel. Think about it, do you really feel he is worthy of you. If you don't feel ready don't do it. It's your body and what he wants from you is precious. It's a gift that should be unwrapped at your discretion not his. Besides, he didn't want to put on a condom!! He must be crazy!! He don't really want you to have his baby. Why would he want you to have his baby at 16? Are you a trophy or something? Does he want to brag "yeah I got her pregnant"? In the end it's your decision, so I hope you do the right thing. Just let him go. There's somebody better, there always is.
2006-07-23 02:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Binky 2 · 19⤊ 5⤋
You are 16. Do you have plans for your future? Do you plan to go to college, get some educations and a career? Do you have any idea what is it like to go through college with a 2 year old to take care of?
Does your ex boyfriend knows that too? Can he handle the responsibility of taking care of you and the baby? How old is he? Does he has a steady monthly income to go with his idea of getting you pregnant? Can he (not his family) back up this proposal?
Of course you know about unprotected sex and sexually transmitted diseases.
If he dump you, good for you. He lets his penis do the thinking, because he has no brains. And someone just "said it" you deserve better. Thank goodness is over. Move on.
2006-07-23 01:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if you don't want to do that then don't. Always go with your gut feeling. Honey you are so young and have a long life ahead of you, waiting is the best thing you can do. I respect you for making the choice of saying no. Remember no condom means maybe STD and babies 4 life. Good Luck
2006-07-23 01:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser he is let me start by saying. Also regardless of age women have the right to choose when and who they have sex with! If not it is called rape. Your boyfriend is trying to manipulate you into having sex - do not fall for it, respect is necessary at ANY age, he obviously has none! Don't bring yourself down to his level - rise above it, follow your heart and make the decisions about YOUR life for YOU, never anyone else! Stay strong, in the future you will look back and say what a waste of time he was!
2006-07-23 01:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl you are still young and there is still a lot of them where that one came from. So do yourself a favor and get out while youstill can. Its very obviouse that he is only interested in sex not you. Thats not the guy you want in your life. At the age of 16, you need someone to love you, enjoy dating you, going out and maybe kissing not necessarily sex.
Be a goodgirl and take care alright?
2006-07-23 01:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm....seems like u wer dating a much older guy of 20 or 22.well u did the right thing coz mature men are always after young galz for sex.so keep him out of your mind and heart coz u r so lucky dat u did not have sex with dat demon. just put a full stop to your love towards him. he doesn`t love u in reality. he waz showing love to get sex!!! all the best
2006-07-23 01:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by ams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its realy the other way, if he realy loves you, he will wait, like my boyfriend did in high school. He waited 4 years for me. You don't need to get pregnant youg,enjoy the best time of your life. You will know when the time is right.
2006-07-23 01:47:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did you a favor by breaking up with you. Go on with your life and don't ever look back. You're definitely way to good for him. Think about yourself and what you want. You can't take care of someone else until you first take care of yourself. Be good to yourself and stay beautiful.
2006-07-23 01:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything you don't want. It has to be very clear to you, not only in these kinds of cases.
No, about you bf, it's good you broke up. It's better then doing something you don't want to do, that's for sure.
2006-07-23 01:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Alice_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get as far away from this loser as you can. You do not want to become a teen mother, or catch some disease. If he really loved you, he would respect your feelings.
2006-07-23 01:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Evilest_Wendy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋