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In our school, many people who are good at sports call me a loser, just because I am not good at sports and other physical activities. But when it comes to acedemics or music, they are not at all good. They say, 'It is Girlish' only girls do good in acedemics and music, not boys. Get out of here loser!'
Tell me. Should I be called a loser??

2006-07-23 00:31:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference Primary & Secondary Education

12 answers

First let me say good for you for getting good grades that will get you further in life than being good at sports. Be proud of your good grades. It sounds like some of these people might be jealous because they are not good at academics. They still should not call you a loser. But do not worry about what they say you know that you get good grades and that is more important. Igore them usually iof you can sort of agree with them and keep going they will quit. If they are not getting under your skin it no longer is any fun for them. One thing for sure I know about kids and public school and that is that kids are cruel. they do not care whose feelings they hurt. That is why I have pulled 2 of mine out of public school and I am going to home school them. You keep up the good work and be proud of it. You will probably be able to earn a full ride at a good college if you choose to go that way. Congratulations and please keep up the good work.

2006-07-23 00:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0 0

do not let them get to you. in the long run, only really good people get to be in the sports team. and what matters most is your attitude towards things and life and general. if you're good at academics, then continue being good at it. you'll get far in life. it is always good to have a good head on your shoulders. and no! i repeat, nobody has the right to call you a loser. stay away from those kind of people. they are like poison. they can get into your system and bring you down with them.

here's a quote from Nelson Mandela that i hope would bring you up...

"Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves,
who am I to be brilliant, fabulous, gorgeous, talented?

Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.

You're playing small doesn't serve the world.
There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that
other people won't feel insecure around you.

We were born to make manifest the glory of
God that's within us. It's not just in some of us.
It's in everyone.

And as we let our own light shine,
we automatically give other people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fears, our presence automatically liberates others."

always remember, "The evil of the world is made possible by nothing but the sanction you give it. Ayn Rand"

2006-07-23 00:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by abstemious_entity 4 · 0 0

When people are jealous of you, they try their best to make themselves feel better by de-grading urself. They make you sound as if you are not so great. Although you are not good in sports, it doesnt mean your a loser or a nerd. 10,15 years down the road, see what kind of job those people get and maybe you can call them losers.

2006-07-23 00:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No. But people never respect themselves.
It is good that you are good in academics, but you should also try some sports, or whatever.
If you know that you have a weakness in an area, you should try to straighten it.
Anyway, you are not a loser

2006-07-23 00:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by balalika 2 · 0 0

no, but the others have the right to spew out stupidity.

keep up the good work. you'll laugh at this in many days ahead.

Also, you're not alone. You might want to find and read the book "Real Boys Voices" by Dr. William S. Pollack.

2006-07-23 00:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by My Big Bear Ron 6 · 0 0

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2016-10-08 05:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

No, you arent a loser. you will have the last laugh when you score a top job earning 10 times as much as the jocks. they are the real losers!

2006-07-23 00:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by allblackskikass 2 · 1 0

No, don't worry, you will see that in about ten years from now they will be the losers, because they never thought about studying seriously.

Trust me, the same used to happen to me when i was in high school, but now all my friends are stuck in Colombia (i'm from colombia) probably smoking pott.

good luck and just keep it up.

2006-07-23 00:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by john 6 · 0 0

Cheer up! Very very few people make a living from playing sports; but, millions of people gain excellent livings by using their brains.

2006-07-23 00:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 1 0

not at all and don't bother with them! Just keep up your good work. It'll pay off in the end and you will be happy you did! Stydying and hard work is essential and brings substantial results so don't give up.

2006-07-23 00:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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