i mean what if your partner is just not good at it.... and you don't *** or don't even enjoy it its like a chore a bad chore like the dishes or the laundry or cleaning a bathroom that has not been cleaned in weeks...WHAT DO YOU DO PLEASE HELP!!!!!!
2006-07-23 00:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by over the top 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh i know how to please him its just he is a slow learner when it comes to learning about pleasing me any other suggestion
2006-07-23 00:30:41 · update #1
we have lots of toys he just doesn't like to use them he says that i should be enjoying him not some toy
2006-07-23 00:33:58 · update #2
we have been together for almost 6 years and the sex was good in the beginning after the first like 8months because he did not want to have sex within the first 8 months he wanted to be sure he like me and we were going to work or thats what he said..
2006-07-23 00:59:33 · update #3
This depends on the couple. Every situation is diffrent... My lady and I are very sexual so its a top priority in our relationship. And with this we both are concerned with the others pleasure. Expierment, listen it all is a big part of it. Goes back to sexual compatiablity. If it isnt there your in trouble. Sounds like its big to you and for one reason or another not for him. Question was he this way before the I do's? If not something is fishy. Good luck and if you have any questions mail us...
2006-07-23 00:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 11⤊ 2⤋
Sex is very important in a steady relationship. The better the sex, the better the bonding (relationship). However, it takes time and practice for both partners to have a great sex.
Aside from good communication, which is extremely essential, a man should never stop learning more about the "art of love making". There are so many books out there for guys to read, learn and improve.
For example, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know by Lou Paget; Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking by Tom Leonardi; 9 Free Secrets of New Sensual Power by Clint Arthur.
Of course, there are tons of magazines and websites out there featuring sex tips and best positions. Try not to pressure him too much, show him, talk to him, tell him what you like and vice versa. This process can be slow, but he would end up to be a great lover in the long run. Lastly, have fun and enjoy.
2006-07-23 00:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the people, some people have higher sex drives than others and sex rates higher. I have a fairly high sex drive and when I was first married I would have said 50%, but I have grown, and matured and though my sex drive is just as high I would rate it much lower now. Relationships are so much more than sex, and even when everyting is hot and heavy, sex is a small part of a good relationship. I do thnk that it is important though, I can't put a number on it but sex is not #1 by any means.
2006-07-23 00:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start using ur imagination to spice it up.. take control of the situation to make it better, teach them what u want, and how u want it.. buy toys to use during sex to make up for his downfalls.. that way he feels like he's participating, but your really the one getting what u need from it.. and hopefully from u leading the way he'll learn a trick or two.. a healthy sex life is extremely important to a marriage.. but its still not important enough to exit one either..
2006-07-23 00:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer to the point - Sex 80% Finance 15% others 5%
If you mean the question is about percentage
2006-07-23 00:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Gopal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, this is a really bad situation.
Sex is very important in a relationship, I suggest talking to your partner, tell him your not happy, what he is doing isn't working for you.
Show him how you would like things to be done & if that does not work, seek counceling.
2006-07-23 00:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the sex rate in a relationship is high,because sex is one of the ways that you can show the other person that you love them.
2006-07-23 01:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sander 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX IS A SMALL PART OF A RELATIONSHIP. TRY GETTING INFORMATION ON SEX TECHNIQUES AND HAVE SOME FUN WITH YOUR PARTNER.
2006-07-23 00:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its deffrant from one to another but i guess there are some PPL its 110% and more ;)
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2006-07-23 00:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach them how to please you and learn how to please them
2006-07-23 00:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by felix r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋