No you are not stupid, you have morals and are a bit shy I would suspect. When it is right it will be right and with the correct person, someone who will appreciate the fact that you weren't with everyone else along the way. Hopefully you will find someone that felt like you and was her first as well. Then it will be very special for the two of you.
Just having sex all the time for that reason alone is foolish. It is demeaning for women especially and is dangerous for every ones health. Being more careful with ones body and emotions means a lot more then sharing them with everyone.
2006-07-23 00:48:27
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answered by JOANNE C 1
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Im impressed that an 18yrold male in this day & age; with all of the peer presure has been able to sustain. Congradulations!
Stop judging yourself by other peoples standards.
How awesome it will be when the right person comes into your life at the right time. Be patient, dont worry about what everyone else is doing.
2006-07-23 07:35:07
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answered by girlsm9frmgod 2
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i truly wish that teenager today would really stop and think about what there doing and having sex early believe me unless you have actually seen them having sex they probably haven't either. if you are a male be glad wait and do what you want to do most women want a man that they feel have not been with everyone in the world and if it someone you love believe me it will make it more special to her to know that you were doing the right thing. and if you are a women treat your body like a temple hold on to your virginity because this the way it should be
2006-07-23 08:30:59
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answered by leonnoel 1
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Dude, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18. In fact there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age if you have not found a woman you plan to spend the rest of your life.
I wish I had the moral fortitude at 18 that you do. I would not have my children but I would also not have child support payments.
Do yourself a favor and wait. The right woman will come along and you will know when it is time to proceed.
2006-07-23 07:34:56
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answered by Ralph C 1
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Half of ur friends are probably lying to you, just to act cool. You dont need to prove anything to anybody. You are cool just as you are by doing the right thing...abstaining.
Your friends are DORKS!!! You want to be one too???
Sex is special, and better enjoyed by two people...especially the one you Love. Enjoy your youth, no need for sexual pressure. Your time will come and it will be worth it. Goodluck
2006-07-23 11:41:01
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answered by ariel 2
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No that is not stupid nor do you look it. That is good keep up those good morals. Don't feel pressured when the time comes you will feel glad that you waited for a good relationship and nice female.
2006-07-23 11:16:11
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answered by sweetfeet 3
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I would lose them no good friends, u should feel proud that u still have ur virginity and get yourself a friend who u can trust and feel comfortable with. don't let them talk u into doin anything like that. I hate them dust as much as u. plz don't get in with them cause i don't like to see nice girls getting hurt. I think i care more about girls cause i grew up with 5 sisters. follow ur heart.
2006-07-23 08:52:53
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answered by DAVY O 3
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I waited till I was 19, 0n my wedding day.---- I went out with the same guy ,for 4 years. All my friends pick on me too, and my boyfriend's friends pick on him . I was proud of waiting. It didn't make me look easy. Its something I can brag about now : ). I finnish high school first---
2006-07-23 07:39:08
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answered by Anonymous
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It doesn't make you look stupid, it makes your friend look stupid and possibly male sluts that are likely to catch a STD if they haven't already.
Don't give in to peer pressure, it should be something you want to do with someone special you want to do it with, not something to impress your friends or do to try to fit in with your friends...if you do, that is being stupid.
2006-07-23 07:29:21
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answered by bottleblondemama 7
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So what is the prob? When you are ready to have sex you will know when the right girl comes along.
2006-07-23 07:56:27
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answered by mlafferty04 2
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